I was at work today and I had a spare moment so I looked at the front page of a newspaper. The story was about this guy who had stalked a woman for 15 years. It had a mug shot type photo and an headline 'women need protecting from men like this'
This customer saw me looking at the newspaper and said 'is that a mirror ?' - there is a newspaper with that name so I replied 'no it's a mail' - he then said 'no, i mean a mirror' and pointed at the photo of the stalker. He then walked off, wasn't joking at all.
I knew what he was getting at. He was suggesting I looked like the stalker guy who looked a typical serial killer type, frown, horrible stare, mean looking. It really did annoy me. I know I'm not pretty sight and my face defaults into a frown but I don't want to be reminded of the fact.
Anyway I was quiet enough for the rest of the day for a co worker to ask what was up. I have had this all my life. I know at least 20 customers after him smiled at me and seemed happy to talk but there is always one who doesn't seem to like me and will say or do something to either insult me or make fun out of me. All my life, wherever I go. It's a reason I tend to keep myself to myself and I have never mixed or socialized.
This customer saw me looking at the newspaper and said 'is that a mirror ?' - there is a newspaper with that name so I replied 'no it's a mail' - he then said 'no, i mean a mirror' and pointed at the photo of the stalker. He then walked off, wasn't joking at all.
I knew what he was getting at. He was suggesting I looked like the stalker guy who looked a typical serial killer type, frown, horrible stare, mean looking. It really did annoy me. I know I'm not pretty sight and my face defaults into a frown but I don't want to be reminded of the fact.
Anyway I was quiet enough for the rest of the day for a co worker to ask what was up. I have had this all my life. I know at least 20 customers after him smiled at me and seemed happy to talk but there is always one who doesn't seem to like me and will say or do something to either insult me or make fun out of me. All my life, wherever I go. It's a reason I tend to keep myself to myself and I have never mixed or socialized.