Ok, so 13 days before my girlfriend's mom passed away, her mom's brother passed. I have done everything imaginable to comfort her when he died.
The night before her mom passed away, I had to take my girlfriend to her friend Kim's house.
My girlfriend wanted pain pills (which is already bad enough, but her kidneys were hurting and she had nothing to ease the pain). Well, we got to Kim's house, and Kim tried to get my girlfriend to shoot up demerol.
My girlfriend asked if I would get mad if she did. I promptly told her, YES I WILL BE P*SSED OFF!!
She did it anyway. The next day, her mom was brought home from the hospital and we were there with her until she took her last breath.
Here it is a few days later, and I have done everything to comfort her. I have stayed awake for days making sure she is okay.
I came home for a few hours today to check on my family (which my girlfriend seemed upset about me doing, saying "they're okay, I need you!").
I have been as nice as nice can be! Well, in that short period of time I was at home with my family, she went back over to Kim's house.
Needless to say, this upset me. I told her she better not be shooting up demerol again, and she swore she wouldn't. At this time, I told her I would leave her if she did.
Of course, her dad got mad at me because she was crying. He cussed me out and told me that I was not allowed over there at their house anymore. (take in mind, I'm 26, she's 25)...
She keeps texting me asking why I had to disrespect her dad and was I sorry for it, and how could I.. Then she wants to say that I don't love her because of this happening, why couldn't I wait to say something after she was better from losing her mom, and that I don't love her.
I need some help with this.. If anyone can talk to me and just give me some advice, I would very much greatly appreciate it!
The night before her mom passed away, I had to take my girlfriend to her friend Kim's house.
My girlfriend wanted pain pills (which is already bad enough, but her kidneys were hurting and she had nothing to ease the pain). Well, we got to Kim's house, and Kim tried to get my girlfriend to shoot up demerol.
My girlfriend asked if I would get mad if she did. I promptly told her, YES I WILL BE P*SSED OFF!!
She did it anyway. The next day, her mom was brought home from the hospital and we were there with her until she took her last breath.
Here it is a few days later, and I have done everything to comfort her. I have stayed awake for days making sure she is okay.
I came home for a few hours today to check on my family (which my girlfriend seemed upset about me doing, saying "they're okay, I need you!").
I have been as nice as nice can be! Well, in that short period of time I was at home with my family, she went back over to Kim's house.
Needless to say, this upset me. I told her she better not be shooting up demerol again, and she swore she wouldn't. At this time, I told her I would leave her if she did.
Of course, her dad got mad at me because she was crying. He cussed me out and told me that I was not allowed over there at their house anymore. (take in mind, I'm 26, she's 25)...
She keeps texting me asking why I had to disrespect her dad and was I sorry for it, and how could I.. Then she wants to say that I don't love her because of this happening, why couldn't I wait to say something after she was better from losing her mom, and that I don't love her.
I need some help with this.. If anyone can talk to me and just give me some advice, I would very much greatly appreciate it!