Tuppence
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I don't know if this is the right place to post this or if there's any right place. The more I think about it, the more I worry I'm doing something wrong.
Sometimes I cry for no reason, or not for a reason I understand. I cried earlier, my fiance asked why, I said I was missing the girls, which was true. He hugged me and comforted me, it helped. But I think there's more to it than missing them.
I love my fiance, he loves me. He says he'll look after the girls and me. I feel safer with him. But maybe we're rushing into it. He didn't want to live with me unless we were at least engaged. He's old-fashioned. I love that. I don't know where I'm going with this. He's wonderful. But should I want to be looked after? I never used to want that. I did feel more equal with my ex.
I don't want my ex back, though we get on well. But we broke up because he was seeing someone else. They're still together. I wasn't good enough for him. Why would I be good enough for someone else?
I want to go out places and make friends, but communication scares me. I ignore the phone. Sometimes I answer and pretend it's a wrong number because I don't want to speak to them. I say I'm sorry but I have to go because one of the girls is crying, but that's a lie. I don't answer the door. I shop online when I can, but then I panic over opening the door so it can be delivered. I arrange to do things like classes but I never go.
I hope it's okay to write this.
Sometimes I cry for no reason, or not for a reason I understand. I cried earlier, my fiance asked why, I said I was missing the girls, which was true. He hugged me and comforted me, it helped. But I think there's more to it than missing them.
I love my fiance, he loves me. He says he'll look after the girls and me. I feel safer with him. But maybe we're rushing into it. He didn't want to live with me unless we were at least engaged. He's old-fashioned. I love that. I don't know where I'm going with this. He's wonderful. But should I want to be looked after? I never used to want that. I did feel more equal with my ex.
I don't want my ex back, though we get on well. But we broke up because he was seeing someone else. They're still together. I wasn't good enough for him. Why would I be good enough for someone else?
I want to go out places and make friends, but communication scares me. I ignore the phone. Sometimes I answer and pretend it's a wrong number because I don't want to speak to them. I say I'm sorry but I have to go because one of the girls is crying, but that's a lie. I don't answer the door. I shop online when I can, but then I panic over opening the door so it can be delivered. I arrange to do things like classes but I never go.
I hope it's okay to write this.