EveWasFramed
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Trying to feel beautiful with deformed breasts
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EveWasFramed
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Limlim said:
Feel free, but restrict it to your skype-cam. (hello) lol
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Is he allowed to post statements like "I am naked." "I am SOOOOO naked right now typing this." "Birthday suit! Birthday suit! I am in my birthday suit!" ?
Milly
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That's basically his Twitter feed
AFrozenSoul
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boobs can be asymmetrical? As a male, I will say that if I am playing with your boobs I am going to be thinking squishy and "honk honk". Not, huh this chicks tits are goofy looking... I can no longer be aroused. The truth of the matter is that very few females have perfect boobs. Most females use all kinds of tricks to make themselves look better in the sexy stuff. If you feel your boobs are not that great that is fine. Work on your body and wear stuff that brings attention to your abs, butt, legs.
However, I will stick by my thought that the exact shape and size of your boobs do not really matter, especially when them boobies are out for playing.
Walley
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lol as long as you only think it and don't say it out loud...
girls don't seem to like it as much as we do.
same goes for boom boom when you bounce them.
those are best kept inside your head.
but to turn this back to a more serious note..
i think girls tend to put more focus on breats due to popular conceptions where as men attractions vary as much as there are different kinds of girls out there.
i personally am a leg man
but this is all just superficial talk. the core issue here is self esteem not boobies.
we can change our looks, our hair, our bodies.. yet still not be happy with ourselves. the change needs to come from within.
sometimes a makeover can inspire inner change and onto a new path though.
girls don't seem to like it as much as we do.
same goes for boom boom when you bounce them.
those are best kept inside your head.
but to turn this back to a more serious note..
i think girls tend to put more focus on breats due to popular conceptions where as men attractions vary as much as there are different kinds of girls out there.
i personally am a leg man
but this is all just superficial talk. the core issue here is self esteem not boobies.
we can change our looks, our hair, our bodies.. yet still not be happy with ourselves. the change needs to come from within.
sometimes a makeover can inspire inner change and onto a new path though.
grainofrice24
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Oh loupnoire, I wish I could take you (and all the ladies here who would care to join me) out for a night on the town, with fancy restaurants, late night strolls, breathtaking skylines and big city lights (topped off with late night pancakes) to make you forget all about your troubles and prove to you that you have nothing to be self conscious about because you are smart, sexy, funny and cooler than the other side of the pillow . But alas, I cant because i am quite a dork and a touch deeeerunk at moment
out for a night on the town, with fancy restaurants, late night strolls, breathtaking skylines and big city lights (topped off with late night pancakes) to make you forget all about your troubles and prove to you that you have nothing to be self conscious about because you are smart, sexy, funny and cooler than the other side of the pillow . But alas, I cant because i am quite a dork and a touch deeeerunk at moment 
Badjedidude
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Limlim said:
lol
It's a common male response.
Doubt The Rabbit
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Badjedidude said:Limlim said:
lol
It's a common male response.
Yeah, I like boobs as much as the next guy but I've never thought "honk honk"
Badjedidude
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Doubt The Rabbit said:Yeah, I like boobs as much as the next guy but I've never thought "honk honk"
Cuz yer not a dude.
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Badjedidude said:Doubt The Rabbit said:Yeah, I like boobs as much as the next guy but I've never thought "honk honk"
Cuz yer not a dude.
Honk honk ! Boom Boom ! sounds like an episode of 'Thomas the tank engine' ! What have I been missing.
theraab
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monkeysox said:Honk honk ! Boom Boom ! sounds like an episode of 'Thomas the tank engine' ! What have I been missing.
Thanks a lot for taking a perfectly good thread talking about breasts and turning it into something innocent.
Now back to the issues at hand. Honk honk. *motorboating sound*
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loupnoire
been reading quite a bit of this thread, I'm a guy so didn't have issues with my "breasts"....
what I was was a bed wetter, I was a bed wetter all the way until I was 16. That means all through school. Was also somewhat chubby and very shy, although I didn't blush red, more internal and I felt extremely "weird", boy my self esteem was in the basement, and although others at school didn't find out about the bed wetting I was in huge fear and anxiety for years!!!.
really hard to have a good image of one's self when one is waking up in their own piss every morning (mom & dad did take me to a number of doctors/specialists to try to figure it out, although perhaps it, the bed wetting came from the insecure home environment with all the conflict and turmoil between my parents), it was it's own certain hell.....
about 16 it shut off, oh thank god, but I was still an insecure teenager, shy, inept, self-conscious with a really rotten self image, many years to get past all that....a mixture of frustrations and successes, I made it through!!!!!....by my mid twenties I was starting to be pretty good....life has been worth living.....!!!
the human spirit can be strong and get past a lot of challenges.....
just really wishing you the best loupnoire , there actually is more possiblity for good life than you might beleive now, there are a lot of people here pulling for you and I'm part of that group......
John H
been reading quite a bit of this thread, I'm a guy so didn't have issues with my "breasts"....
what I was was a bed wetter, I was a bed wetter all the way until I was 16. That means all through school. Was also somewhat chubby and very shy, although I didn't blush red, more internal and I felt extremely "weird", boy my self esteem was in the basement, and although others at school didn't find out about the bed wetting I was in huge fear and anxiety for years!!!.
really hard to have a good image of one's self when one is waking up in their own piss every morning (mom & dad did take me to a number of doctors/specialists to try to figure it out, although perhaps it, the bed wetting came from the insecure home environment with all the conflict and turmoil between my parents), it was it's own certain hell.....
about 16 it shut off, oh thank god, but I was still an insecure teenager, shy, inept, self-conscious with a really rotten self image, many years to get past all that....a mixture of frustrations and successes, I made it through!!!!!....by my mid twenties I was starting to be pretty good....life has been worth living.....!!!
the human spirit can be strong and get past a lot of challenges.....
just really wishing you the best loupnoire , there actually is more possiblity for good life than you might beleive now, there are a lot of people here pulling for you and I'm part of that group......
John H
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Matthew 18:8 said:
If something makes you insecure, it's better to be rid of it, rather than hope other people will accept you (sometimes they will, sometimes not).
Personally, I can probably be attracted to (wait, scratch that, definitely, I remember specific examples) girls from size 0 breasts to C or D cup. I have a hang-up over asymmetry, but I don't think there's much preventing you from being loved as a person. I think every time you put on a bra you're gonna get reminded of this, and find reasons to dislike yourself. Since you don't appear to want surgery to balance yourself out or to outright remove the thing, there's a simple solution.
Dispense with the bra. You won't have to look at the thing every morning, and you'll definitely get attention from even those guys who like big breasts.
Hello,
I think the decision is up to you, you say you don't surgery but it seems your confidence is shattered by your breasts.
If your not happy using inserts then that only leaves surgery, I'm not sure where your from, but you'll be able to get corrective surgery on the NHS in the UK, I know you also said you don't want any surgery but think this way; if you do nothing about them then you'll always have the problem, unless you learn to deal with it mentally.
I can tell you now that there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look in your picture, I think your quite attractive, and while you think all men will dismiss you because of how you think you look, this is not the case. You should stop worrying about how other women look, if you go through life constantly comparing yourself to others, you'll never be happy at all, and also stop worrying about what guys would think, why should you care? Most of what you say can also be blamed on the fact that you've been bullied, I think bullying has the same effects as being raped (mentally), governments and schools should do more to tackle the problem.
But in your case I think you should seriously take a step back and decide what you really want and how you're going to do it, mentally or physically, good luck!
I think the decision is up to you, you say you don't surgery but it seems your confidence is shattered by your breasts.
If your not happy using inserts then that only leaves surgery, I'm not sure where your from, but you'll be able to get corrective surgery on the NHS in the UK, I know you also said you don't want any surgery but think this way; if you do nothing about them then you'll always have the problem, unless you learn to deal with it mentally.
I can tell you now that there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look in your picture, I think your quite attractive, and while you think all men will dismiss you because of how you think you look, this is not the case. You should stop worrying about how other women look, if you go through life constantly comparing yourself to others, you'll never be happy at all, and also stop worrying about what guys would think, why should you care? Most of what you say can also be blamed on the fact that you've been bullied, I think bullying has the same effects as being raped (mentally), governments and schools should do more to tackle the problem.
But in your case I think you should seriously take a step back and decide what you really want and how you're going to do it, mentally or physically, good luck!
AFrozenSoul
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Well given responses to common male responses that I have made I was sure that would earn me another ban.Badjedidude said:Limlim said:
lol
It's a common male response.
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Limlim said:
I feel like some of these replies have turned insensative. Since society and pop culture seem to measure a woman's desirability by the size of her breasts, it means that to most girls, this one included, that this is a very serious, troubling issue to her. If you were a man with a deformed penis and people started joking around about it, I can bet most men would feel ashamed.
It's painfully obvious that she can either have surgery or not, I think she already realized that. I think she really wanted to learn how to accept her body the way it is and be able to feel beautiful, and desirable to a man just the way she is.
She has been very open about something very painful and hard for most people to understand...I think we need to step back and think about how some of these comments might make her feel.
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