beans said:
Ak5 said:
Yeah I know about that comfort zone stuff. What I need is a little bit more advice, support, so I don't screw up. Oh and I don't have autism or any other mental issues. My doctors have said so. All they say I have is typical anxiety. Like I said, my main problem is that I haven't used social skills for years, so all I need is a little advice.
Sorry I didn't go through that video, I thought it was a general one. Well how about this?
Sorry, I just don't know what teenagers usually talk about. I am 28 and I usually do well with older people. Of course people my age and older is fine for me. But I too, would have less to say when I'm around teens and children. Children for me is awkward too until I got a job at a kids edu centre and it used to be hard for me to talk to kids, even my own nephews. But because I kept seeing a lot of kids, I kinda picked up how they generally act/say, so that's why its helpful to meet as many people as you can.
I still don't really know what to say with teens because once I was talking to this 18 year old girl and I often don't know what to say to her but she told me that she doesn't like people asking her "how is school? how is studies? what are you studying?" and yet those are my favourite questions I'd ask a teen. lol. She said people her age don't like to talk about that but they prefer to talk about movies and such. So there you go. lol
Thanks.