It might be helpful for you to google the various stages of a break up.
Those stages wont come in a particular sequnce though.
The forsite youll have wont examp from having to walk through it...but it'll give
a little bit of sanity while you're going through the rolloer coasters.
Try to take care of yourself through all of it.
Try to eat, get rest as much as you can....
Give yourself a break or take a time out.
If you have to cry or scream...allow yourself to do so.
It's very stressful or trumatizing.
I know it's difficult to do..but try to do the things you enjoy doing...your hobbie ect...etc
I play my guitar..stuff like that. Sometimes it helps other times it dosnt.
Youll go through...I love you, I hate you, I cant live with out you, was it real?, fresia you, renegotications,
grieving, oh how stupid of me your a stupid ***** I can do better, to god fucken help.
There's acceptence, letting go...all that good honeysuckle you already know.
You dont have to accept it, let go , or stop loving her. You dont have to do anything.
Post as much as you need to. Journal. Talk to others. Bounce it off of anyone that will listen.
Dont keep it all inside. Take a piece meal or let it all out...whatever way you want.
There's no right way or wrong way to go about it.
I'm sorry that you're hurt. You're not less of a man for feeling hurt. You're not less
of a man if you cry for her.
It's a major wound. You're going to feel it for a while.
Sometime we must also stop picking at it so infections dosnt set in...but must
still attend to the wounds. Not pretend you're not hurted.
Whats real is....you're hurted.
Go out with other women. Sometimes it helps other times it dosnt.
Sometimes I listen to music
Sometimes All i can do is Breathe
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