Being a recent chatroom addict on a variety of sites, I've come to meet a bunch of new people, and see how different people prefer to interact with others. There was one time in particular where I met someone who was getting upset because of the amount of "smalltalk" going on.. and it got me thinking. I had always put such topics as the weather and social pleasantries like asking about someone's day in that category, that stuff that I considered checkout counter talk. Anything else was just talking At least, til you get to the depressing, deep topics.
Personally, I thrive on "smalltalk", if that's to be defined as 'saying little bits of whatever's on your mind and wanting to hear if anyone has anything to add.' I think it's fun, and a great way to get to know people.
What do you think about smalltalk? What's your 'definition'? If you find it annoying, why?
pardon me while I take notes to fill in the gaps of my dilapidated social skills
Personally, I thrive on "smalltalk", if that's to be defined as 'saying little bits of whatever's on your mind and wanting to hear if anyone has anything to add.' I think it's fun, and a great way to get to know people.
What do you think about smalltalk? What's your 'definition'? If you find it annoying, why?
pardon me while I take notes to fill in the gaps of my dilapidated social skills