putter65 said:
Lonesome Crow said:
I dont know what is right or wrong for you Putter.
I can only speak from my own experince.
My experince is simply that...mine.
It's not better or worst.
I've been in relationships all my life. Good times and bad times.
People walked out on me. Ive walked out others.
Ive been in messed up toxic over the top to the extreem worst of the bad relationship.
At the sametime ive also experinced a healthy relationship for years and years
before that relationship morph or warped into a bad one.
Ive walked away from very beautiful nice kind loving women that
wanted me and seemed like the ideal partner but who knows how that was going to turn out like either.
I longest Ive gone being single without actaully chasing
women or wanting to be in a relationship is probably 5-6 months tops.
I took advise or suggestions of not being in one for a while.
Will..it kind of worked against me just the same after a couple of months.
I ened up going through those self defeating behaviors myself just the same.
Its not as if...when i get involve with someone and make a commitment
that I tell myself...Gizzzz this one is going to be bad...lets go with her.
I weight out things a lot...the pros and cons. Her good qualities and bad.
As much as I think and over annylize everything. FFS.
It's not put me off women.
Definately put me off womwn like her though. If I had my time again I would have walked after the second date.
If you're still wanting or looking for a partner.
Then get back on the saddle. You have a better understanding
of what you want and dont wanna put up with.
Dating can be like a fucken choir sometimes. Sometimes
it'll leave a bad taste in your mouth. Sometimes you'll get
burn out. Women have the upper hand. They decide
whom they wanna fresia...that's all there is to it.
Think about it...Sexually, you're going to be on top of her
and pouncing on her or she's gonna be give you a blow job.
Women gets pretty god **** pickey whom they're going to
get down on thier knees for. Your freaken sweat and cum
in her or all over her. It's the same **** reasons why you
like that younger chick.
It's worst than putting in jobs applications and going for jobs
interviews sometimes.
Like i said before...you want all that honeysuckle right out of the gate.
With the taste of the types of women you like.
Well...if you were young, a honk and have grips of money.
You'll probalby have to fucken fight them off of ya.
But If youre older, not fit and the ends barley meets
You're either going to have to open up your options.
Work out to get firm and fit to look more sexy.
Make more fucken money
Or alter your taste in women
The other alternative...i guess, is to be a mother fucken monk.
Find peace and solitude by yourself.