EveWasFramed
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Please...no one on this forum. In real life only.
kamya said:No one today and nothing =P
Did I do it right? I'll update when someone actually does make me feel like crap.
Who made you feel like crap today?
What would you like to tell them?
Tiina63 said:Someone I sent an email to last weekend about a really bad situation I am going through and she still hasn't bothered to even acknowledge the message. I thought she was a friend, someone I could trust and rely on, but it seems I was wrong. I didn't expect her to come and hold my hand or to let me cry on her shoulder, but I at least expected a short note of understanding and empathy.
PlayingSolo said:Yesterday, one of the first customers I rang out asked if I knew where something was. I told her the most likely spot I thought it would be. She said she already looked there. I then suggested it could also be in another spot, which I took the time to even walk with her to that spot to help her look. She looked for about 2 seconds, and then replied with a snarky comment in a tone suggesting I'm a freakin idiot who doesn't know honeysuckle. I was pretty annoyed but I kept my composure. Although I didn't give her the same courtesy I give other customers from then on. I was thinking I'd feel like honeysuckle for the rest of the day, but it wasn't all that bad actually
What I'd like to say to her? Nothing really. I don't generally enjoy lashing out at people, even if they've offended me in some way. My philosophy is that everyone has bad days, and you don't have a clue what other people are going through in their life. For all I know, that ladies husband could have left her that day. In which case, even if she did offend me, I feel she's been hurt a lot worse and is just trying to make it through things. But there's other people out there who are just plain jerks. Is it my place to try and figure out which of the two options each person is? Nope, not really. It's not really my business.
That's probably more than what this thread was asking for, but that's my 2 cents.
kamya said:If someone is being rude just call them out on their BS and tell them to knock it off.
SophiaGrace said:Recently I've learned that "Hey i'm still standing".
Dark Poet said something on facebook that really resonated with me. We are facebook friends. He said that people said mean things to him on omegle and chat roulette. Then he said "but at the end of it I was still standing."
Lately whenever someone says something mean to me i try to repeat to myself "Hey, I'm still standing. It doesn't matter what they said, I am still standing. I'm still here."
I don't know if that helps any but it resonated with me.
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