I was in this site a while ago...I mean when it all started.
I posted few times and got an awesome advice and support from bjarne...the founder of this site,
I have been back now for a few days and although I can not put my finger on the reason...something seems not right....
I sense disunion and I have a feeling of being invisible......
I mean c'mon ...this is a site for lonely people to communicate and where we should feel ok..... but I feel like a few are the queens and kings of the ball and the rest are not accounted for or forgoten after 3 or four posts ......or ....like there is not one in charge creating new intelingent threads were everybody can find a point of reference, suport and more insight regarding the issue of loneliness.
I mean for example ....
My name is blah-blah and i come from...
welcome
you are welcome
you are welcome
you spanish wow!
yes I am...and you..do you like chocolate?
Not response ....
and then...what else I am suposed to find on this site?
some spamists looking for lonely people's money$$$$?
people falling out and fighting or being reprimanded for using the word gay???
It seems to me like a war zone....where power struggles run high and where the real and original purpose for this site to exist is a bit gone .
I don't see challange....it seems to me a bit bland and taken out of context.
If I am silenced in any way for this post, so be it.
I would like to know another members opinions on this matter...
I posted few times and got an awesome advice and support from bjarne...the founder of this site,
I have been back now for a few days and although I can not put my finger on the reason...something seems not right....
I sense disunion and I have a feeling of being invisible......
I mean c'mon ...this is a site for lonely people to communicate and where we should feel ok..... but I feel like a few are the queens and kings of the ball and the rest are not accounted for or forgoten after 3 or four posts ......or ....like there is not one in charge creating new intelingent threads were everybody can find a point of reference, suport and more insight regarding the issue of loneliness.
I mean for example ....
My name is blah-blah and i come from...
welcome
you are welcome
you are welcome
you spanish wow!
yes I am...and you..do you like chocolate?
Not response ....
and then...what else I am suposed to find on this site?
some spamists looking for lonely people's money$$$$?
people falling out and fighting or being reprimanded for using the word gay???
It seems to me like a war zone....where power struggles run high and where the real and original purpose for this site to exist is a bit gone .
I don't see challange....it seems to me a bit bland and taken out of context.
If I am silenced in any way for this post, so be it.
I would like to know another members opinions on this matter...