WHY ARE YOU HERE?

[Nuzzy Nuz]

A question that keeps flashing in my head.. why are we here? Why are u here? Why am i here? If u missed ur chance to explain why you are here or if you u realized a little late why you are here, then here is ur chance to voice out why you are here...Take your chance..



Why am i here?
At first i satisfied myself saying i was here to help somone who needs help most.. but i found someone who really pointed out that i was one of the people who needed help.. i had an inner demon to tame.. and i thank you for pointing out that imperfection really led u to b somone perfect.. All my life i have lived independant and i believed that life was much better that way but now am learning to live a lil dependant on someone who really means alot to me.. and i figured out that i was living a cold life right there inside my heart.. caged up and locked in.. i thank you for guiding me that life wasn't bou caged up thoughts and ideas..
So, i found my answer, i am here coz i wanted to learn bou life from the perspective of other's point of view..

 

[Mouse]

Interesting you ask that. I'm not lonely inasmuch as living alone and feeling isolated, but being family orientated I enjoy socialising online quite absorbing. Since three years ago my returning to forum has been rather a challenge, but I've made friends that have given me good guidance when needed. I find the forum games, for example, quite compelling. They are always fun and a jolly good way of getting to know people.

 

[Mr. M]

Really, I don't know. :|

 

[Triple Bogey]

Show off my photo's to the people who are interested
Read about other lonely people and their struggles.
Habit

 

[user 115627]

I needed some place to crash after I had left another forum behind. After a short while I grew pretty fond of ALL, not just because of the more diverse user base. Made some friends and valuable experiences around here as well...so I stayed.

 

[blackdot]

Because I'm lonely.

 

[Danielle]

I like it here

 

[StormChild]

Today I'm here because I decided to stop whining to myself about being lonely and go find some people to talk to.

 

[ladyforsaken]

As I've said before on the forum, this place is like my cyber dwelling. Besides that I am here to see how I can contribute towards other people and at the same time I've met some really cool people and a few awesome friends who have stuck by me through thick and thin. What more could I ask for?

 

[BeyondShy]

Because I'm lonely.

That covers it for me too.

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Today I'm here because I decided to stop whining to myself about being lonely and go find some people to talk to.

Working my way up to that. And I do need people to talk to.

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As I've said before on the forum, this place is like my cyber dwelling. Besides that I am here to see how I can contribute towards other people and at the same time I've met some really cool people and a few awesome friends who have stuck by me through thick and thin. What more could I ask for?

Oreo cookies?

 

[TheRealCallie]

The first time I came here, I was in a horrible place in my life and didn't have anyone. There's more to it than that, but I won't expand on it.
The second time I came here, my life was much improved, but I didn't (and still don't) have time to have a life, so since I have made some good friends here, I decided to return to have a chance to have a conversation or two with adults, instead of just my children.

 

[BeyondShy]

Show off my photo's to the people who are interested

You bet. Keep going.

 

[PenDragon]

Why am I here?

This question has popped up many times, too many times in my head, don't even remember how many times. And each time the answer was different. When I first came here there were one or two reasons, to know people, to get close to them, to be friend of someone. Cause the life I had earlier was grey and dull, I don't have any friends out there in real world as you all know that, so virtual world is my first step to let people in my life. It started few months ago when I was in different forum but I wanted more so I googled and found this place, I used to come here often as guest until I was quite convinced to join and took the one more step forward and got a membership and that was one of the best thing I have done in my life.

This place feels like home, it's quiet except few times People are very friendly here, this place has given me some of very best things in my life which I am very thankful for. It has given me so many good memories but then as with life, this place has also given me pain and suffering, and few I deserved and few I didn't deserve but again what is coin if there is not two sides of it.

There were some times during my stay here when coming here felt like ripping myself in pieces, like diving in Hot lava and hoping not to get burn but there were few who helped me, who gave me their time, part of their life. Helped me regain what I had lost for which I'll always be in their gratitude. Thank you guys, without you I would not made me this far. I would have gone but there are few people in here so goddamn good to leave, yeah you know whom I talking about, without you this place is "deserted". I'm glad you guys are still around.

So, In short I'm here cause this place is great. I'm here cause I have very good friends here, I'm here cause It's my habit to come everyday just to see people and listen to them and help them as much though I'm not very good at it but I try, I try to be as much as I can. To make few more friends, yeah I'm little greedy, I want more friends not more just couple of them This place has taught me some good lessons of life. This is sort of my home, a resting place where I come and rest some times.

****! I'm writing too much again. Don't wanna leave this chance to say it all

And thank you, Nuzzy Nuz for making this thread otherwise I would have written it all on Diary again

 

[Peaches]

I guess my reason is to hear that I am not alone in being lonely not that I take solace in other people's suffering, but this whole "we are in the same boat" kind of feeling always cheers me up a bit.
Lots of good advice too, and some very special individuals.

 

[HoodedMonk]

Why am I here?

This is going to turn into an existential question for me. Why do I exist? Why am I living? You might as well ask why I brushed my teeth this morning. Because, it just is. It's a part of me, a part of my being. I love ALL with all my heart and soul. I'm glad it exists.

As for the question of why I exist and why i am living. I just am. There needn't be a reason.

I remember years of being lonely when I was a teenager, feeling as if I were an outcast, as if people didn't accept me. Now I don't need people's acceptance in the real world because I have ALL to turn to. It's a place I belong to now.

I hope ALL never dies. There's nothing else like it on the internet. At least nothing else like it for me.

 

[BeyondShy]

Lots of good advice too, and some very special individuals.

I have been finding this out too myself.

 

[Sci-Fi]

I'm here because my mother wanted children.

 

[kamya]

Rejected, abandonded, and lonely. Just a few reasons.

 

[Nuzzy Nuz]

One more thing, am here coz i felt i am accepted here.. a belonging here feeling.. if u kn what i mean

 

[TropicalStarfish]

Somebody told me there was free pizza and I'm still waiting...

Seriously, though, yeah... Where's the **** pizza?

Cutting the crap, though, jokes aside... Pineapple sounds like a good topping...