Personally I kind of see this thread as closed now as I was unaware of certain points when I started it. Not sure if it can be closed or whatever but yes I see it as over.
Edit. That said I personally don't see the fact that his wife left him as making everything alright. They were still cheating for some years. To all the people who said this is none of my business. She is my sister, I care a great deal for her but also am shocked by her behaviour. I feel quite strongly that cheating is wrong and I just feel that this has shown the man she is with in a very bad light. I will never only see him as my sisters boyfriend. I feel my sister deserves better than this, than him. However I do feel they have been given a get out of jail free card. They have hurt and lied to a lot of people, why should that just all be forgotten?
Also I would in some ways like to have nothing to do with any of it but she tells me, wants to tell me? So what can I do. Its a difficult situation, one thats hard.
I feel the people saying I'm being judgmental should perhaps take there own advice.
Edit. That said I personally don't see the fact that his wife left him as making everything alright. They were still cheating for some years. To all the people who said this is none of my business. She is my sister, I care a great deal for her but also am shocked by her behaviour. I feel quite strongly that cheating is wrong and I just feel that this has shown the man she is with in a very bad light. I will never only see him as my sisters boyfriend. I feel my sister deserves better than this, than him. However I do feel they have been given a get out of jail free card. They have hurt and lied to a lot of people, why should that just all be forgotten?
Also I would in some ways like to have nothing to do with any of it but she tells me, wants to tell me? So what can I do. Its a difficult situation, one thats hard.
I feel the people saying I'm being judgmental should perhaps take there own advice.