AFrozenSoul
Well-known member
So I am not trying to be offensive here, but I am getting kind of tired of people whining about how they have never had a significant other. That is all I see on this in particular sub-forum. Well that and broken hearts. However, broken hearts are a different thing.
So to all of you out there who are depressed because you have never been in a relationship. I have to ask, why don't you go out and find one? Whether you are a male or female. Why do you sit here and mope and whine? I know I am guilty of this as well, but I am trying to change that. All I hear is how everyone is so miserable and depressed that they have not had a relationship. Go out and have one. I just do not get it. If the experience is all that matters, and it is easy to interpret any one of the posts as only wanting the experience. Go out and have it.
So can anyone please tell me why so many wait for the fire to start for them. Instead of starting the fire themselves? I can say reading all these posts helps to keep my fire to change going. Please tell me why you cannot be with the first person who is willing to have more than one date with you.
So to all of you out there who are depressed because you have never been in a relationship. I have to ask, why don't you go out and find one? Whether you are a male or female. Why do you sit here and mope and whine? I know I am guilty of this as well, but I am trying to change that. All I hear is how everyone is so miserable and depressed that they have not had a relationship. Go out and have one. I just do not get it. If the experience is all that matters, and it is easy to interpret any one of the posts as only wanting the experience. Go out and have it.
So can anyone please tell me why so many wait for the fire to start for them. Instead of starting the fire themselves? I can say reading all these posts helps to keep my fire to change going. Please tell me why you cannot be with the first person who is willing to have more than one date with you.