jchildressmd
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so lately ive fallen into a deep depression, many factors have played a role in this, because i am new, i will give a little insight into my daily life and my past
starting with my past, i am the oldest of 3 kids, my dad left us and disappeared when i was 14, leaving my mom and us kids in poverty. Times got harder, my mom worked as a dispatcher for the PD, and worked 12 hour nights, we barely ever saw her, at that point i took hold of the household. I became a recluse, going to school exhausted, not interacting with anyone, the few boyfriends i did have i was too self-conscious to allow them to stay.
eventually my mom would start to go out with different men on her nights off, i remember waking up at 2,3,4 in the morning and she was still gone, i would lie awake crying, begging god to bring her back safe. I eventually started to dispise my mother, i was always wondering why she would leave, my dad left, why does she have to be gone to?
time eventually went on, and i met a guy that i thought would treat me right, only to find out 3 yrs in the relationship that he had been cheating on me, and every nite i would fall asleep, hed sneek off to go smoke pot and party with his friends. i tried to make it work, i gave my all, but our breakup was messy, full of lonliness and hate.
i had lost all self respect, i was so alone and just wanting someone to hold me, i didnt care who, i started partying hard, having one night stands, becoming involved with men i knew only wanted one thing, it was a fast easy fix for a broken heart. a chance to escape the pain, feel wanted if only for the night. and it was in this time that i met jason.
our relationship blossomed perfectly, we had both come from broken homes and broken relationships, we really got to know eachother before getting physical, we were suddenly intrigued with eachother, always wanting to be around eachother, i thought i had finally met my match, someone that needed to be loved just as much as me, but of course i knew that dark days were ahead. weve been together for a year and a half, i sleep alone, he sneeks off, ive lost any friends ive had and i dedicate everything to him. he has pushed me away so hard that i dont even have enough strength to keep it together. Its become even more apparent how much of an outcast ive become with my 21st birthday around the corner and i have no one to share it with but myself.
ive decided to join this forum because i know other people are feeling what im feeling, and this is my only outlet.
starting with my past, i am the oldest of 3 kids, my dad left us and disappeared when i was 14, leaving my mom and us kids in poverty. Times got harder, my mom worked as a dispatcher for the PD, and worked 12 hour nights, we barely ever saw her, at that point i took hold of the household. I became a recluse, going to school exhausted, not interacting with anyone, the few boyfriends i did have i was too self-conscious to allow them to stay.
eventually my mom would start to go out with different men on her nights off, i remember waking up at 2,3,4 in the morning and she was still gone, i would lie awake crying, begging god to bring her back safe. I eventually started to dispise my mother, i was always wondering why she would leave, my dad left, why does she have to be gone to?
time eventually went on, and i met a guy that i thought would treat me right, only to find out 3 yrs in the relationship that he had been cheating on me, and every nite i would fall asleep, hed sneek off to go smoke pot and party with his friends. i tried to make it work, i gave my all, but our breakup was messy, full of lonliness and hate.
i had lost all self respect, i was so alone and just wanting someone to hold me, i didnt care who, i started partying hard, having one night stands, becoming involved with men i knew only wanted one thing, it was a fast easy fix for a broken heart. a chance to escape the pain, feel wanted if only for the night. and it was in this time that i met jason.
our relationship blossomed perfectly, we had both come from broken homes and broken relationships, we really got to know eachother before getting physical, we were suddenly intrigued with eachother, always wanting to be around eachother, i thought i had finally met my match, someone that needed to be loved just as much as me, but of course i knew that dark days were ahead. weve been together for a year and a half, i sleep alone, he sneeks off, ive lost any friends ive had and i dedicate everything to him. he has pushed me away so hard that i dont even have enough strength to keep it together. Its become even more apparent how much of an outcast ive become with my 21st birthday around the corner and i have no one to share it with but myself.
ive decided to join this forum because i know other people are feeling what im feeling, and this is my only outlet.