Yes, of course i understand how a debate functions, but since this is about helping people feel better isn't it also so that we should listen to and learn from others and try to create some form of middle-way? I only know from what You tell me, as well, and that is far from making something good of Your presence here as it could have been, simply because You are so incredibly stubborn, which is what a great deal of my definition of "dumb" stands for; not being able to learn anything from others because You're way is always better. Everything that we do here You have said something negative about, how they heck do You then think people are going to do anything else than flame You? You are the one who don't seem to want to come to an agreement of any form, but only keep pushing Your own ideas through without leaving room for anything else.
Well, You sure are quite different if You don't actually feel welcome when people try to welcome You, perhaps the only one who publically admitted this, so far, too. I don't understand what Your definition of "Pep-rally" actually means to 100%, but the threads that i've been posting in myself always has led to a much deeper interest of the thread-author's problems, either in that thread or via PM's which is a matter that You seem to have forgotten or never learned about.
You obviously aren't the slightest interested in finding out what i've done to assist others, for that matter, which is why i find Your lies about me so aggravating.
Seriously Aaron, could You perhaps show us what You so far have in store for Your idea of helping people? Could You reproduce an example and go to action? Since You have nothing but speculated about how much better it must be to do this Your way, how can You be so certain that it will even work at all? Why do You think nobody, including the one's here who truly spend many hours every day to help people (both on and off this forum) have gone near trying the method that You are cooking on? Is it because we're not caring enough? Because we simply aren't intelligent enough? Do You think that we do not try hard enough because none of us have been so rough in finding out an idea of how to help people with the external obstacles they have, as You have?
I say what i say because i can't find any other logical way of helping people, via this forum alone, than what i'm already doing. This is what You, obviously, have failed to explain even to the one's who truly do understand everything that You are writing. Since i don't find any logic in what You're trying to do, because i don't understand WHAT You are trying to do or how anything than what already is being done could help anyone, is there really a wonder that i and several others see You more as a predator promoting a website than someone who are trying to help anyone?
Of course there is endless repeat at a place like this; we have incoming folks posting their pretty inspecific first-posts of help every day. If the newcomer wants to get specific, we'll get specific with him/her. I do believe there actually is alot more going on behind the scenes, via PMs, than what's going on in the boards, all the time. I have almost twice as many PMs in my inbox than number of times i have posted, and i'm not even that popular.
You are more a mystery than an answer to anyone's pleas, that is why we (You probably know which people i mean by now) don't truly see You as an enemy, but Your attitude, mixed with Your knack to confuse, it's not easy to see what Your true intentions are.
