TheSolitaryMan
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Have you ever just really wanted some physical contact with someone of the opposite gender, to the extent where it dominates your thoughts?
I'm not talking about sex or anything rude-related. Just a hug, to hold hands or to kiss or something?
I'm starting to wonder if there's something unusual about my mental state sometimes. I spend literally most of my day just feeling like I really need a good hug, as weird and kind of sissy as that sounds.
I know loneliness is kind of normal, but this is additional and different. It's actually distracting me from my work. I slip far too frequently into this daydream world of "God, a hug/kiss/whatever must be so amazing" instead of what I should be focussing on
Plus it's manifesting itself in my physical state too. I feel this discomfort, not quite a pain as such but more a lingering state of unease whenever I think about it, like something is "missing".
I don't think my friends bragging constantly about their GFs are helping this either to be honest.
I know the obvious answer is "Duh, you need a hug you nubbin!", but since that's not happening anytime soon I'd be happy with just some reassurance that I'm not crazy
I'm not talking about sex or anything rude-related. Just a hug, to hold hands or to kiss or something?
I'm starting to wonder if there's something unusual about my mental state sometimes. I spend literally most of my day just feeling like I really need a good hug, as weird and kind of sissy as that sounds.
I know loneliness is kind of normal, but this is additional and different. It's actually distracting me from my work. I slip far too frequently into this daydream world of "God, a hug/kiss/whatever must be so amazing" instead of what I should be focussing on
Plus it's manifesting itself in my physical state too. I feel this discomfort, not quite a pain as such but more a lingering state of unease whenever I think about it, like something is "missing".
I don't think my friends bragging constantly about their GFs are helping this either to be honest.
I know the obvious answer is "Duh, you need a hug you nubbin!", but since that's not happening anytime soon I'd be happy with just some reassurance that I'm not crazy