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I have made some improvements in my life, I've got a better job, moved somewhere completely different made a few more friends since the start of this year. It's good to have people to talk to even if its just messaging on the phone and the odd call here and there... The problem is..I think my...

So I had one around a large dinner table with some strangers. It went like this; one girl shows another a picture of her boyfriend then another starts 'show me!' Soon the whole table is pulling out pictures on their phones of their respective partners. It inevitably leads to the explanation that...

Something I've been thinking about of late...I just can't seem to get a new job and I have been trying and trying and trying over the last year throwing applications out left right and centre, revamping my CV, writing better cover letters...but to no avail at all. I'm still stuck in my shitty...

I'm not sure what it is about mornings. I get up and my mind starts racing and I realise that I'm just not getting anywhere with meeting new people. I hate comparing my situation to others. I sometimes think to myself life hasn't changed in the last few years like im stuck in some loop and when...

So I've tried speed dating a month or so back and didn't get a match from the people I liked after the event. It was a fun experience to just talk to women if rushed but does make me think man I guess being humourous, confident and having something to talk about isnt enough if you've not got the...

I sometimes sit and realise life is passing by and the people I know are able to get on and things almost come to them. The two main things that make me feel this way are jobs and relationships. Jobs - i've started a course to teach abroad which is the total opposite of what I am doing now. Yet...

When I wake up these days, its really hard to sometimes tell myself this is life. This is how alone I am. I sort of lie for a minute then get up straight away...I know this is an odd thing but I sort of wake up without any sort of purpose. Go to work, hang out somewhere sometimes with people...

Responding to loneliness is key to coping with it but how do you cope with it? What are the effects of it for you? I cope by eating, taking aimless walks and sleeping. Whenever my mind starts dwelling on it I usually force myself to get up and do something because it's the worst feeling...

Let's get the crackers out here; 'You'll find someone when you least expect it!' 'You'll find someone when you're not looking!'

I hate having to partake in events that are destined to repeat themselves. Meet someone new talk to them, they're interested in someone else. Try to change your lifestyle and become an interesting person...nobody gives a flying fresia about you still. You try and change it but its a disease it...

I'm leaving my family home next week to stay in a shared house in the City. I don't know the people in the house well at all as its just separate working individuals all living together. I've been meaning to go and live on my own since last year and finally got round to getting everything sorted...

We all get them but holy honeysuckle do they really pile on top of you if you're struggling. I work in a call centre of sorts and deal with criminals calling up. Now most of the time its ok but there are times it fluctuates to ******* terrible and today is one of those days. I come back from my lunch...

So I've sat here all day at the end of my bed propped up against wall reading a long running manga...all day haven't played any games or done much else should really have been applying for more jobs but alas the day has disappeared. I sort of have a realisation when I sit on the end of my bed...

So if you've been isolated and a loner most of your life you realise it affects your ability to function normally in society at times. This is the same of jobs. I have to admit I was doing a degree in which I wasn't 100% sure I wanted to go into it as a career and as such got below average...

I have only ever had one serious relationship that lasted a year... and I have never been in the position of seeing someone or having the odd small relationship here and there. I have begun to think after my 3rd year of being single and, that means not seeing anyone or anything like that as in...

I'm a 24 year old male and I'd like to have a chat with some men and women roughly my age. Even if you're a little older sure we can impart some wisdom here and there. PM me if you want to talk about ye old England or just general stuff.

I've actually lost count of the amount of times it comes to the end of the week after work and everyone goes back home to their friends/partners and I take the long train back to my home town where I know no one walk the route back to my house go up to my room and sit back on the laptop... I...

I thought I would put this out there as I'm really struggling with this at the moment. I had a relationship for 1 year in 2011 and it was my first real relationship. I was so happy with the person and we even thought that we would stay together for the rest of our lives, looking back that was...

I think one of the best things I've ever done is taken an interest in traveling. When I leave the country I change so much become so much more outspoken and confident and explore with wonder. It is pure joy that I find for myself it is just amazing finding places meeting new people even if its...

Hello to all! I'm from England and thought I would be able to talk to people going through similar experiences on this forum. Hope you're doing ok today!