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I haven't posted in this forum in years. I first came here almost 4 years ago when I was at the lowest point of my life. Completely depressed, completely obsessed, and feeling hopeless to change it all. My best friends had ended our friendship. I had no will or desire to see anyone. I had my...

It's been forever since I've visited this site, and even longer since I've posted. I just got a text from one of the few people I stay in limited contact with, sharing a link of baby photos. One of my former friends just had their baby pictures taken 2 days ago. I was a groomsmen at his wedding...

Someone asked me this, and I didn't have an answer. It really bothered me. I mean what would make you really happy? I don't mean a person/relationship, that's deriving happiness from another person. I mean an interest, that you yourself have. It could be music, art, cooking, sports, cars, etc...

One of the biggest things in my life, is comparing myself to others. Family, friends, strangers, it doesn't matter. Seeing friends, pass on by in life. Seeing what others have done by the time they were this age, or what they have that I don't. But it causes a giant snowball effect of regret...

I'm just wondering how many people have tried getting professional help and how effective it has been. As a realist I know that I'm living a lonely life because I have issues. This isn't something that just happened suddenly. I read other people's stories and get the same gist. Reading the "why...

I've been feeling pretty down today. I cannot keep going on like I do with monotonous meaningless day after monotonous meaningless day. I need to take action but I have zero inclination and motivation to do so. I've scheduled a psychicatric evaluation, but unfortunately it won't happen till...

What do you all do, when you're feeling down, and you start getting assaulted by all the happy times and memories you used to have with someone? How do you snap yourself out of it? I know the obvious answer is to not dwell on them. I try not to, and not think about it in general. But at times...

What Song currently describes your life right now? Katy Perry - Lost Have you ever been so lost? Known the way and still so lost? Another night waiting for someone to take me home Have you ever been so lost? Is there a light, is there a light At the end of the road? I'm pushing everyone away...

I know I have low self esteem. In therapy my therapist constantly tells me I'm always being way too hard on myself, and taking all the blame. I also know it's impossible for me to stay mad at anyone. This makes it near impossible for me to move on from my situation. I can be so self assured...

Everyone here has issues and is more understanding of other people's problems and issues. I posted a quick thread about mine with the girl on a different forum that was frequented by "normal" people. I got this huge backlash of insults. Nonstop people talking about how I'm 30 and she's 18, and...

I know what I need to do to get myself out of this psychological pithole I dug myself into. I just don't do it. For the past three weeks I've been sulking in an emotional stew. Last night I spent several hours straight in deep thought over it. I didn't sleep. How much can you think about...

Friday night is the highlight of most people's week. What are your big plans for tonight and the weekend? I of course have nothing going on just like every other day. I'm just looking for some inspiration. I've come to decide that most people I know are now homebodies. They worked their long...

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Just wondering where most people spend there time on the internet? No need for the possibly obvious ones like google, facebook, twitter, youtube, etc.

After the last fiasco I was involved in (which can be fully learned about in the relationship forums), I'd love to chat it up with new people. I'm fairly easy to talk to. I'm 30 male, from NYC with extremely wide interests, sports, music, movies, business, cooking(finally starting to learn)all...

I've never had a significant "breakup" before. But having that person who you used to spend all your time with disappear suddenly, knowing that you caused it, and knowing she's happy and moved on from you. How do you deal? I just can't. I feel like I'll never meet someone that passionate again...

Warning extremely long, very loserish, and kind of depressing... No real point in posting it other than just put it out there to feel better I am 30 years old, and very socially inexperienced. I have never had a real relationship. I have had opportunities of course. I have had girls who have...