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Hey, well done on taking positive steps to improve your life. I don't have any advice as such, just wanted to wish you the best of luck. :)

Gosh. Any response seems so trite.

This is true. You don't even HAVE to represent yourself as slutty, even. I was on SinglesNet some time back and before I'd even had my real profile up - I mean, I was in the process of writing out my stupid profile with catchy and memorable honeysuckle - and in the meantime the site had the basic info...

I think it definitely gets harder to make friends when you leave school/college/uni. A lot of my good friends made as I've got older have been through work, but a lot have also been through general socialising and friends of friends. I think once you meet one person in a friendship group it sort...

Instead of aiming for the unavailable stunners with loads of men chasing them, why not to get to know a few of the lonely wall flower plain janes? You might be pleasantly surprised at who you find and the response you get.

I thought you had a sister and a niece?

Any woman could log onto a casual sex site/one for affairs and be offered sex within minutes (if you put the right stuff: just want no strings/no commitment/discreet/not bothered about looks or age etc/willing to sleep with married guys). If you don't believe me, go try it.

That was actually quite a witty comment she responded with (sorry!). If someone is going to cheat, they're gonna cheat. How many female friends they have or how many exes or past shags they're friends with is irrelavant and an indicator of nothing. In fact, if men are more secretive about their...

I was the first one in my group of friends to have a baby (unexpectedly) at the age of 25. Now I'm 31 everyone has started to catch up. Initially I did feel quite isolated because they didn't understand really. But straight away I resolved to keep my own identity and very much keep my social...

Forgive her. Cut contact. Move on. It's that simple. All this energy wasted on this girl... all this mental pain and torture you're putting yourself through? And for what- a broken bad person who doesn't even want to know you. Life's too bloody short mate. You need a reality check: this is...

You know what cumulus james, I could have a pop at you an in fact many others on this board, who have no actual practical reason that keeps them locked in the house night after night alone... this house might as well be my prison. For me, it is because I am a full time single parent. For others...

The problem is that by trying to avoid people hurting you and shying away, you end up being in pain anyway.

I'm not surprised you don't have any friends. Unlike the vast majority of the people on this board, you sound like a very nasty person. The only person to blame for your predicament is yourself.

How do would you stop yourself developing stronger feelings for one person than another? Most people naturally develop feelings that are stronger than friendship for one person at a time. You can't force yourself not to love someone more than anyone else, or conversely to love everyone the same...

I am not a big fan of it. I find it embarrassing and unnecessary. I am very affectionate behind doors but there's simply no need to be all over each other in public. It's alright when you're in a club and drunk as it's a very common sight but elsewhere it's just inappropriate.

We've talked. He isn't a stereotypical nice guy but he is a decent one. I don't wish to go through the whole shebang but we are just not right for each other. I am not fully healed from my ex before him and need some time to heal before I launch into another relationship. Meh. Life goes on etc.

I understand completely. Some people are simply happy to let relationships roll along even if they don't have strong feelings for the person. Some people are also incapable of loving anyone as intensely as some people love everyone they end up with. If a relationship is causing you more misery...

You will experience many friendships in your life, they come and go. Some will come back to you. Some won't. Some will last forever but most won't. If you think you have explored all avenues to make the friendship work, it is time to move on and put your energies into new people. Some people...

Oh well it seems like he might not be such a nice guy after all. Methinks i'm on the verge of being dumped and he's going about it the silent way. A particular favourite of mine. Ho hum. Time to resume staying single by choice which I had a spell doing for 7 months because I can't ******* trust...