While I disagree with using PUA tricks to find a meaningful relationship; if your aim is to find some hot chick in a bar to bang - by all means.
The thing is, maybe she'll rule you out after knowing you for 3 minutes; only call you back after 3 days; will go "Hot and Cold" on you; or maybe is using you to boost her ego.
Either way, if you both are playing each other, it will be a match made in heaven.
Maybe I'm just bitter, but physical beauty blinds people to a certain extent - some more-so than others.
I'm not saying that it wrong to desire physical attraction in a partner, but if that is all you're looking for and all you care about - then maybe, that is all that you will get.
But back to "the beautiful people":
When you look THAT good - you know it due to people force-feeding you with compliments and worshiping the ground you walk on.
It seems that even the "regular guys" and "regular girls" don't even want each other as they're hell-bent on chasing "the beautiful people" of media's standards.
This further in turn, over-inflates the already ginormous ego of "the beautiful people" as there are plenty of others that will tolerate their BS due to physical attraction.
I mean this in the nicest way possible, but I'm willing to bet you're one of those people. A regular guy who overlooks the nice, regular girl for some hot chick despite her bullshit and also that everyone else tolerates because they all want to sleep with her.
Chick develops entitlement issues because she learns that she can treat people like honeysuckle and they keep on coming back for more.
Soon after, regular guy complains why no one likes "nice guys".
The same can be said for women.
Perhaps I'm cold, but I have no sympathy.
What many of the men and women have posted here - are not lies.
What do they gain from lying to you?
They are offering their perspective, and either you cannot or are not willing to see things from a different point of view.
For you, you simply look at women as opposed to seeing them.
There ARE people who can treat you well - but maybe those are the same people that you wouldn't give a chance because it seems that your #1 priority is appearance before personality.
I know for me, I find it hard to believe sometimes...but not everyone is out to destroy and use you.
Not everyone is out there with malicious intent.
There are the few very sincere and good people - you may just have not met them yet.
I keep reminding myself that because it is a sad way to live - to be looking over your shoulder and holding so much hatred for people you do not even know.
Really SocratesX...I've read a lot of your posts and sometimes I think you're an ass.
Other times I think you're just a regular guy that's just hurting and lashing out.
Truth be told, I don't think you're such a bad person if you have to work so hard at being an *******.
If a string of fresia-buddies is all that you want, then fine.
But if you ever want anything genuine, give yourself a chance and stop thinking "These ******** are getting all the hot chicks. I will become an ******* myself."
That's just adding to the problem of people's lack of respect for each other and you're becoming what you hate.
Apologies for the long-ass post...I've been meaning to reply to one of your threads one of these days haha. No hard feelings.
