Ever have feelings for the same sex? Disclaimer: Nonsexual

[Lilith]

I'm just curious. o_o

DISCLAIMER: This is totally nonsexual, so get your minds out of the gutter.

 

[ladyforsaken]

Not really, no. Admire them? Sure.

 

[Sigma]

Yup, but he died a few years back.

 

[Jéssica Soares]

Not really...
but there are things I would like to try in a sexual way, just to get that experience but nothing more than that... no compromise, at all.

 

[Tiina63]

Yes, I do. I realised last year that I am bisexual.

 

[Jéssica Soares]

Yes, I do. I realised last year that I am bisexual.

So... we can try some stuff (a)

just kidding xD

 

[UGLYDUCKLING]

the maximum I've shared is a brotherly feeling for another guy! xD

 

[Lady X]

I've been in long term relationships with females and males. I wouldn't classify my sexuality as anything though really... not a fan of boxing it in.

I'm now married to a wonderful man though, my soulmate, so I guess I could be considered heterosexual for life now lol

 

[Lilith]

Ohh god, did I really post this thread last night o_o XD

Anyway, I'm a female, but I never check guys out like some girls loooove to do. I'm never out in public with my girl friends and going "**** he's so hot and sexy"; I don't even say that about celebrities or anything. Some of my girl friends do that, though. My reaction would always be like "Uhh sure... XD Yeah I guess he's good-looking" and in my mind I'm like "ohh my god they're weird for drooling over guys, ahahaha weirdos; don't they have something better to do or talk about?" Nope I never like, drool over them. I usually "check out" girls, but not because I have a sexual desire for them, but because I like the way they look or sometimes compare my own self to them. I'm definitely not a lesbian either. I have a boyfriend. Although it's such a turn on when he acts all "feminine" for fun, it makes me wanna pretend to be the man and 'mm mmm mm'. XD I've never been into the bulky-buffy workout junkie type of guys - not my cup of tea. My type is a bit on the lean and slender side, toned, and have a really funny and entertaining personality.
I used to have a crush/pretty strong feelings for one of my girl friends. Nonsexual though, it'd be WEIRD to think about having sex w/ her. No way, it's feelings, not sexuality. I actually probably have stronger feelings for girls than guys, but it depends I guess. I can have strong feelings for a guy when I acknowledge that I have fallen for someone. I love my boyfriend, of course. I'm very happy.

 

[Jéssica Soares]

Well when you put it like that... maybe I had strong feelings for one girl, but not in a sexual way for sure despite her inquestionable beauty x)
But so we're talking about strong connections and strong friendships...

 

[Lilith]

.....friendship? Is that what it is? XD Then I'm relieved and happy that true friendship feels so wonderful.

 

[Bones]

No

 

[duff]

not at all

 

[Jéssica Soares]

.....friendship? Is that what it is? XD Then I'm relieved and happy that true friendship feels so wonderful.

Dear, if you're talking in a non-sexual way, what else could it be than a strong friendship or a strong connection between two friends? :s

 

[AngryKoreanMan]

I find stuff like this very stimulating for some reason. peak of male aesthetics. its like 90%admiration and 10% homo attraction.

 

[dorotka]

Yes I have! She is a very very good friend of mine, at one point we were very close, and although she had better friends than me I considered her my everything at that time. I always wanted to be around her and hang out with her. Whenever I would go to an event or a party I would take her, sometimes after she had a bit of alcohol she kissed me (I mean those little kisses or cheek kisses, forehead kisses and so on), and she told me plenty of times how much I meant to her and that she loved me. I didn't want to have sex with her or anything, but I felt like I was in love, I thought about her all the time, ALL THE TIME. I was so scared to tell her because I figured it would ruin our friendship. After a few months it went away as I started to hang out with different people. We see each other everyday because we go to the same college, but I don't feel like I used to anymore.

 

[Broken_Doll]

Yes, absolutely - those girls are my 2 best friends ever. <3

 

[SophiaGrace]

I feel like how you worded things was a bit homophobic. But, maybe I'm wrong.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

No, I've never had feelings for other guys. Only girls.

 

[*Sammy*]

Before marriage i would have considered myself bisexual.

I had a relationship with a girl at college and we had some good times. I've also kissed and 'fooled round' with a few others. I can appetite a good looking woman and wouldn't consider saying no if one peeked my interest if my marriage ended.