AnonymousMe
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I’m sure this is something that’s been said or asked many times in this forum, but I’ll ask it (again) anyway. I have read this a LOT of times and even though I don’t give two sh*ts about people, it still makes me angry whenever something like this happens, due to its level of stupidity.
So what am I talking about? Well, imagine a couple that’s been together for a long time, between 1 to 5+ years, they know each other, live together, have a sex life, they’re all happy, fine and dandy, but there’s still a minor, non-important detail that’s making the woman unsatisfied with her relationship and maybe even drive her desperate: his proposal. Where is it? She’s been waiting all this time for that moment, wondering why he hasn’t showed her a ring, so she goes to confront him about it, then BOOM, either he sees it as something unnecessary or as the classic “just a piece of paper” or he outright thinks it’s ridiculous. This, of course, makes the woman feel all sorts of dramatic emotions within herself, “Ooh, I want to spend my life with him as his wife and not his girlfriend;” “Ooh, I want to have children;” blah-blah-blah. With that realization, she then starts thinking if she’ll have to end the relationship, goes on to the internet and decides to break up because anonymous responders say that her current boyfriend is “not the man that’ll make her happy” or for any other reason that would work as an excuse.
WOW, selfishness at its core, they’re basically saying that her needs and wants are MORE important than the ones from the man that’s busted his ass to make her happy at all times and precisely to avoid becoming ex’s of each other. I’m not saying that women should 100% agree with their boyfriend’s opinion, but overall, the reasons men give to not get married are often true. Titles, rings and documents don’t mean jack when it comes to determining a couple’s happiness, OK yes, both of them signing a certificate merges their finances, but if the whole reason to sign papers is to have legal benefits, then why don’t they just sign them in a simple office? The wedding and honey moon aren’t necessary and don’t guarantee “till-death-do-them-part” happiness. Those rituals are as outdated as religion itself.
WHY, just why? Why do some women do that? Why would they ruin their own happiness and end a relationship with man that may be their perfect partner? They even go on about saying that all the time they spent with him was a “waste of time…” A WASTE OF TIME. What the hell? That’s like saying that everything you’ve felt that brought you joy in the past was dumb. If a woman decides to break up with him because it doesn’t guarantee to share his mortgage with him, those women are *censored*
Hey, here’s a tip: if your boyfriend hasn’t proposed to you after staying with you for a good amount of years, then why don’t you, gee, I don’t know, PROPOSE TO HIM YOURSELF! Must men be the only ones to get on their knees and ask someone to marry them? No, of course not and there’s no reason to state further obvious things here, but people really don’t care about reverse gender roles.
So what am I talking about? Well, imagine a couple that’s been together for a long time, between 1 to 5+ years, they know each other, live together, have a sex life, they’re all happy, fine and dandy, but there’s still a minor, non-important detail that’s making the woman unsatisfied with her relationship and maybe even drive her desperate: his proposal. Where is it? She’s been waiting all this time for that moment, wondering why he hasn’t showed her a ring, so she goes to confront him about it, then BOOM, either he sees it as something unnecessary or as the classic “just a piece of paper” or he outright thinks it’s ridiculous. This, of course, makes the woman feel all sorts of dramatic emotions within herself, “Ooh, I want to spend my life with him as his wife and not his girlfriend;” “Ooh, I want to have children;” blah-blah-blah. With that realization, she then starts thinking if she’ll have to end the relationship, goes on to the internet and decides to break up because anonymous responders say that her current boyfriend is “not the man that’ll make her happy” or for any other reason that would work as an excuse.
WOW, selfishness at its core, they’re basically saying that her needs and wants are MORE important than the ones from the man that’s busted his ass to make her happy at all times and precisely to avoid becoming ex’s of each other. I’m not saying that women should 100% agree with their boyfriend’s opinion, but overall, the reasons men give to not get married are often true. Titles, rings and documents don’t mean jack when it comes to determining a couple’s happiness, OK yes, both of them signing a certificate merges their finances, but if the whole reason to sign papers is to have legal benefits, then why don’t they just sign them in a simple office? The wedding and honey moon aren’t necessary and don’t guarantee “till-death-do-them-part” happiness. Those rituals are as outdated as religion itself.
WHY, just why? Why do some women do that? Why would they ruin their own happiness and end a relationship with man that may be their perfect partner? They even go on about saying that all the time they spent with him was a “waste of time…” A WASTE OF TIME. What the hell? That’s like saying that everything you’ve felt that brought you joy in the past was dumb. If a woman decides to break up with him because it doesn’t guarantee to share his mortgage with him, those women are *censored*
Hey, here’s a tip: if your boyfriend hasn’t proposed to you after staying with you for a good amount of years, then why don’t you, gee, I don’t know, PROPOSE TO HIM YOURSELF! Must men be the only ones to get on their knees and ask someone to marry them? No, of course not and there’s no reason to state further obvious things here, but people really don’t care about reverse gender roles.