ForeverVirile
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Apologies if a similar thread has been posted. I didn't do my fair share of searching outside of going through a couple of pages on this subforum.
So, what is a loser? Do you abide to a general definition or do you have your own perspective? Do you think the idea of 'being a loser' is silly or do you prefer a different word?
Do you feel like your definition of the word? Why, if so?
I've felt like a loser before (see this). I feel like one now. My family thinks I'm going to college and that I have been since 2009 when, in all reality, I haven't been inside of a college classroom since December 10, 2009. Since then, I've been a bit of a recluse, hanging out with my closest friends once or twice a month maybe, and outside of that I do hardly anything. I've developed some social anxiety from it all due to the fact that I don't get out as often as I should. And I should. By myself. For the exposure part of it. Anyhow, I'm rambling.
I feel like a loser because of my boneheaded actions that I wish I could go back in time to account for. I feel like one for being cheated on/lied to a couple of years ago. The list goes on.
I can't tell you the point of this thread. I just wanted to hear the perspectives of others on the word 'loser' and why you might have the negative, unmeritable feelings of erroneously identifying yourself as one? Negative mindsets, etc.?
So, what is a loser? Do you abide to a general definition or do you have your own perspective? Do you think the idea of 'being a loser' is silly or do you prefer a different word?
Do you feel like your definition of the word? Why, if so?
I've felt like a loser before (see this). I feel like one now. My family thinks I'm going to college and that I have been since 2009 when, in all reality, I haven't been inside of a college classroom since December 10, 2009. Since then, I've been a bit of a recluse, hanging out with my closest friends once or twice a month maybe, and outside of that I do hardly anything. I've developed some social anxiety from it all due to the fact that I don't get out as often as I should. And I should. By myself. For the exposure part of it. Anyhow, I'm rambling.
I feel like a loser because of my boneheaded actions that I wish I could go back in time to account for. I feel like one for being cheated on/lied to a couple of years ago. The list goes on.
I can't tell you the point of this thread. I just wanted to hear the perspectives of others on the word 'loser' and why you might have the negative, unmeritable feelings of erroneously identifying yourself as one? Negative mindsets, etc.?