lonelycollegeguy00 said:
Yes Sophia is right.......sex is a want! I am a guy and yes, of coarse I want sex but I am not going to throw a fit because I don't get it.
Either way anyone wants to think about it, this is the truth!
Wants and Needs are two different things. Here are the examples!
Do you NEED sex?.........NO!!
Do you want sex?........YES!!
Do you NEEDfood and water?.......YES!!
Do you want food and water?................MAYBE!!
That's all there is too it. So think about it when you say you need something. You diffently don't need sex to survive!!!
Here is my my thoughts on the rest of the subject.
I am a nice guy and yes these days I know it doesnt get us "nice" guys very far with the ladies. But as far as I am concerned I will not change to being a complete jerk or ******* just to get it. I would rather be a nice guy with very few girls or friends then be a complete jerk that always deals with drama.
I would kill to have a really nice, sweet, loving girl not looking for a jerk and wants to be treated right!!
errr...my body needs sex just as much as it needs air and food to live
a healthy life.
Of course Cilvilizations would have you belive that you don't need it.
Population CONTROL, Power CONTROL, disease CONTROL.
Obviousely your parents wanted to had sometype of control over you life.
When it comes to sex..it's a no brainer that they wouldn't want you to have sex until you're a responsible aduilt
that can stand on your own two feet. To be able to take care of yourself and if you get a girl..pregnant that you would
be able to take care of her and the child...Of corse..be a virgin until that time comes...perhaps through fear, guilt or shame.
Or that might say..girl that have sex are sluttly whores. Your friend was riased the sameway. They agree with you. You accept it as normal.
Never the less it's still a control issue.
However if you're a young adult and havn't had sex. You'll still retain some of that programming. It might be subtle or it might not that you're afriad to touch a woman or have sex with her.
But here's the thing...You had to have training wheels when you first learned how to ride a bicycle...You sure as hell didn't know how to pop a wheelie your first time out.
Your parents eurge you on..They encourage you to get up and try and try again becuase it's through failing that you learned how to ride you bike...you practice ..practice
until the day came when you were able ride your bike without a training wheel..then you progressed to popin wheelies...And you sure as hell didn't feel guilty about it.
You are afraid of eating honeysuckle or crashing...however your parents supported you and help you get over your fears..
SEX is not any differnt. You learn as you go.
Relartionship is not any different...you learn as you go. You learn through making mistakes.
Life is the same....
Will...fresia, how come it's okay for women to say...sometimes she has to kiss a bounch of frogs before she finds a prince...(sugar coating girly stuff)
Oki Doki...but it's not okay for a guy to fresia a bounch of slutty whores before he finds Mrs. right. (caveman talk
) He belongs in the Duche baggies section...Errr wtf???
You should have self CONTROL..if not, then there's something wrong with ya or you'll get burn with brimstone in a lake of fire in hell(GUILT & SHAME).
Holy fresia...I saw a lot of visions too when i was messed up out of my fucken mind. If you strave yourself for 3-4 days..you'll start seeing honeysuckle too.
If you surpress your natrual sexaul drive...you'll get depressed as messed too. When you're depressed you're not thinking too clearly.
PURE spiritaul being don't need sex. fresia me with a screw driver...I'm too pure and too good for this life. WTF???
Err..did you know that Budhad suffered from a disease in the last years of his life???
Man can't live on bread alone. Wonder who gave that advice???
Living and surving are two different things...That's like eating a fucken cake without the frosting or eating food without flavor.
Treat a woman right by having sex with her without making her feel
like she's an object, guilty, dirty or something TO HAVE....
Share your sexaul experince with her. Share your love with her. Share your life with her.
Yes...yes tell her what she wants to hear...that you're going to
make love to her..You're still going to have sex with her no matter
how you say it or go about it.
ok..the prince charming Mr. Nice guy role playing stratagy...how's that working out for ya?
The world is a stage...Err!!! So ACT RIGHT