Recent content by ThePsychologist

Hey guys. This will be a long one. I will be swearing in this topic. This is the first time I'm posting in the "Miscellaneous Issues" board, so go easy on me :p Well, as you can read in the title, I am angry. Very angry. Before I start with my story, I will share some backgound information...

Some basic info: I am 23, GF is 23. We met each other in group therapy and have been happy pretty much most of the way. We both have some emotional issues and we support each other in this way which is basicly one of the biggest strengths in our relationship. This is my first relationship, for...

Haha, well, I did not expect YOU to think otherwise ;) Mr Alpha!

I am 23 years old, live in the Netherlands, and have a girlfriend of 23. We are 8 months together. We met each other through a therapy group (to which she quit, and I still attend) and both have a form of an anxiety disorder (which we both can cope with pretty well in general lately) and...

Hey guys, Been a long time since I last made a topic. And as always, I only make topics when things are going bad :P Those who have followed my threads will know that I have a GF that I have met through group therapy. Especially the last month is going much better than the previous months...

Hmmm, I'm sorry but I don't understand this. Perhaps I'm blinded, but I don't see where this is coming from :) How does this tie in with the previous threads? Could you follow up on this? I'm really curious.

Absolutely excellent advice everyone! I am indeed sexually inexperienced (she was my first and we only have had sex about 6 times now). She on the other hand had two partners before me. I'm just gonna reply to some replies :) "I understand that he is not sexually experienced but I know , I...

That's great advice :) Especially about the reversement of roles. Punishing her would not bring positive things to the table. She deserves better. Gonna make sure she stops and says "now what?" for sure, it's just rediculous and kills the mood instantly. Also thought it was funny how you...

Hey guys, Just a warning before I start, I will be talking about sex in this topic, so if you do not want to read such a thing, please click the "back" button :P So, last night we had sex again after two weeks of inactivity. This is due she works a lot and had the day off the next day, so she...

Another update. I guess I was right after all. All my "over-analytical" thoughts I had, were all correct. I asked her directly and she told me (via text) that she sometimes more feels like we are friends than lovers. That she does not want to meet parents yet because she does not think she can...

Well, I learned my lesson. After she texted me that she wanted to be alone for a while, I did what she said and gave her some space. 8 hours later she responded asking me if we would go to the cinema next Wednesday :) In those 8 hours I had huge urges of finding out what was going on, but now...

Well, looks like we are cancelling the meeting parents thing. She said she does not know what she wants at the moment, that she needs to be alone and that it has nothing to do with me. Gah, this is so frustrating! I want to know what's going on in her little world, but she's not really opening...

Well, we are both in a group therapy for young adults with all kinds of problems. But mainly depression and anxiety. I hope she's playing head games, but I'm also sure she's dealing with her own stuff (she does not have an easy life considering that she doesnt allow herself to have fun. She...

Hey guys. As the title suggest, I'm not really doing okay. I'll explain the situation: Wednesday evening we went out to dinner. Everything was fine in the beginning, but after an hour passed, things got quiet and we didn't really know what to talk about. So we had some silences that I don't...

Hey again! I have another question for the fine folks of A Lonely Life. I'm in a relationship for 4 months now with my GF. We've had a few little fights about silly things. But I do feel very happy with her and I think she feels very happy with me. But lately, I feel very restless. I don't...