Recent content by walkman

Well, I feel like it's me when I read you. I struggle with asyncronised sleeping patterns. But Haz, don't let the frustration get you. I'll tell you, it's all because of your thinking and the daily routine that comes out of that way of thinking. When the outer routine break somehow, the sleeping...

How can you be happy HAZ?? Do you think we have the answers?? We may give you varied recommnedations, but that may even confuse you further. Ask yourself, how can you be happy. Take some action on it, any action that breaks your routine, but just don't let your mind tell you that you are alone...

fuzzybutt... it's not really much difference if you are talking to yourself, or talking to somebody you think is 'out there', if you are caught in your own images and ideas... the mind is a tremendous self-deluding mechanism... a maker of duality... arguments and dramas are played here... I'm...

Speak for yourself, buddy. In all seriousness, though, how did you come to these conclusions? sorry if the language got you buddy (I'm not that good at english but I try my best)... I'm speaking for myself indeed... as each one of us here is... don't take the post as some claim... it's just...

Tonight, I'm overwhelmed by the world... more and more and again and again... overwhelmed by the sheer fact that how insignificant, terribly finite, lost, incomplete, lonely, abandoned, useless and helpless people feel in the face of it all. Was I born just to face this nonsense?? What a cruel...

Good question sevenacids. I have pretty similar questions. Only that I have no answers yet... and I don't think there are perfect and easy ways to understanding our loneliness and conflict. It's one **** difficult issue. Practical and convinient solutions don't work here. But I only know that...

Hi, welcome to the forum:) I'm new too... 1) I don't know for how long. I just felt an isolation every since I migrated. Perhaps I was always lonely. I only realised it a couple of years ago. 2) NO, fundamentally I'm no different to anybody out here or out there. We all have superficial...

You are good at heart HappyYogi. I wish I was so wise on that day. But on that day all I could think of was to abandon those people... they deserved it on all rational grounds... but I stayed... I could not just reject them... and I can't... I thought "What would be the difference between me and...

No Fvantom, you are not bad, but you havn't come out of the conditioning that society has put in - namely, always comparing. We are jealous, we compare. I agree facebook sucks, but only because people have made use of internet to do more idiotic things. What was supposed to be a boon has become...

Well, tyler, completely sympathise with your problems. It's actually very good that you are looking out for help, and not trying to solve it by yourself (cause you can't). You don't have issues asking for help and that's a very good virtue. I've pretty much 'been there done that' on whatver you...

Well, now that you have had a close brush with death, I hope you are in a position to LISTEN to others. The thought of suicide is a moment of INSANITY, not sanity. Don't take action in this confusion. It's violence, and violence achieves nothing good. Suicide is not the solution to life's...

NoMoreHope... please read my above reply... You don't know how much I wish that you come out of your loneliness and affliction. I would rescue you if I could, but I'm no God, nobody is, to give you perfect and easy and instant solutions. I can write endlessly on it. But then again, sadly, we can...

NoMoreHope... don't cry please... it's one thing **** unhealthy to keep saying that you are hopeless. There is NOTHING innately wrong in you. Your emotions aren't a problem, but your thinking is (There is no 'negative' part of your brain or anything). You have just fallen into a routine of...

Thanks jjam. Normally I'm not so cynical, but I felt really sick on this occasion. It was an evening totally wasted... a potentially social occasion spent on something so shoddy. I'm sure they are not so bad as well, but I wish people could really be healthy and receptive in thier conversations...

I think I know what it is that makes people feel lonely the most. It's having insensitive, shallow and mediocre people around oneself, people who having the least capacity to Listen, who never open up, who never become vulnerable and say "I don't know". It's all about how much 'I know, I...