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Ever been rejected by girls that intently flirt with you non-verbally? I swear this happened to me recently. A girl in at a dance club made eye contact, smiled, threw her hair and intentionally bumped into me...she even came up and put her shades on my face and danced with me. But when I...

I read your thread and sorry to barge in here, but are you sure the woman is single? You should ask her about that, she did ask about your ex right? Good luck

chronic social failure

Yeah I agree seems that way at least. It's why I gave up completely on dating and only tend to physical needs, better than no women at all.

That's a good attitude!

. How do you cope with loneliness, ever accepting it? I'm 25 now, nothing has really changed, no real friends, partner or family connection. I barely get by on weekends; drink a lot of alcohol at places, play billiards and disco with strangers that I probably will never meet twice. I also...

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Yes I'm alone no family and real friends if that counts. I'm curious if you are doing something about it, surely there must be something you can do?

Listen, I used to envy a guy because he was surrounded by girls, he had many girl friends while I had no one. But I stopped caring when I finally understood that he did not get with any girls at all, he was social but not a lover or seducer...it was just an illusion. What I'm saying is things...

Have you ever heard of pub crawls? I'm sure they have those in London; it's like a group of local people in any city that organize get togethers and free nightlife tours for other locals, singles or newcomers around your age. All you have to do is google it, contact them online and join them...

red lit room with thick smoke and a game of billiards with a girl turns me on...especially when she stretches over the table to hit a shot.

i'm sorry butterfly. in a similar situation, can't tell my family because it would go around and eventually reach my father, who is more miserable than me at the moment; divorced, abandoned, forced retirement, bankrupt, emotionally unstable, alcoholism, illness) so much tristesse i don't want...

nice Andy, i have a grey shirt also with epaulets and aluminum buttons, wear it all the time. actually i don't even like grey, but when i wear this one it makes me feel non threatening...i look like i am at peace even though i'm not, fools others too...strangest thing.

You can start by avoiding those cliques and talking to strangers instead. As fan91 mentioned earlier; talk to a girl at a bus stop and act like you're talking to yourself about the cold or the wait, how late it is...and see if the other person reacts to you. Who cares if you mess up, there are...

I can't argue with you there, and yes I am aware that some std's can be transmitted by the slightest contact with the skin. But pretty much everything we do including sex involves risk. Frankly I'd rather take risks, than be sad and celibate at 23. Btw I tested recently and results came back...

hey resist73, It's a relief to hear you put it so bluntly. I wouldn't bother arguing with the moralist or sexually atypical in this thread...bottom line is prostitution solves a lot of problems for us lonelys in need of some company and a sexual outlet. It's just an easy natural fix and we...

I´m really sorry to hear that jimmy, sounds like you need something to motivate you. What about uni, have you been studying something you really love? Sometimes it helps to focus on the things you are most passionate about. Please hang in there man, good luck!

Please don´t ever blame yourself for failing with people. It´s not your fault. Sometimes people change so drastically, they become incompatable. Anyway, props for making changes in your own life...I definately like the project idea! Good luck!

Since my late teens, I have always enjoyed the most mundane idea of fun. That being partying hard all night long in dark clubs with beautiful women, loads of alcohol and loud house music. But how normal is it to do all this ‘alone’, time and time again? I mean surrounding oneself with...