How To Attract Men

How To Attract Men

http://www.smartattract.com/


A Woman's Guide To Approaching Men

http://lovesagame.com/a-womans-guide-on-approaching-men/

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What Men Want In A Relationship

http://powertochange.com/sex-love/menwant/

How To Talk To Your Boyfriend

http://talk-to-men.com/

Quickly Get A Man's Attention And Interest

http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/quickly-get-a-mans-attention-interest

Why don't they delete this copy?

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It kinda woulda made more sense to close this one.

I totally disagree where it says "Men don't want to be harangued about the status of a relationship", to paraphrase. You have to know where you stand.

oopsiedoop said:

Why don't they delete this copy?

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It kinda woulda made more sense to close this one.

I totally disagree where it says "Men don't want to be harangued about the status of a relationship", to paraphrase. You have to know where you stand.

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This is the thread I want to keep. I made a mistake and duplicated a topic in the thread with the title in caps listed below.

You mean the one that everyone replied to and where you listed the other sites?

oopsiedoop said:

You mean the one that everyone replied to and where you listed the other sites?

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Nope. This is the thread that counts. The other thread were I typed the title in caps is the mistake. It has been closed, but
I believe Minus added a redirect to this one here. Is that what you mean oopsiedoop?

I think her point is that these two threads were identical to begin with (except for you changing the title of one), but one of them had gotten replies, while the other was still empty, and it would have made more sense to close the one who was still empty.

Equinox said:

I think her point is that these two threads were identical to begin with (except for you changing the title of one), but one of them had gotten replies, while the other was still empty, and it would have made more sense to close the one who was still empty.

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Oh.

I really loathe sites that "explain" how to "attract men" or "attract women." 9/10 times they're very silly.

HOWEVER,
In response to oopsiedoop, men DON'T like to be bothered about the "status" of the relationship. That is, for the most part, something women obsess over. You don't NEED to know where you stand. You just need to let it BE and ENJOY it. That doesn't just go for women though, it goes for everybody. Too many people get too hung up in the friend/boyfriend/married aspect of it that they forget to enjoy each other. If your answer to his question, "Do you love me as your S.O.?" is, "Yes," then that should be good enough. Quit trying to monopolize each other's emotions. You can't win loyalty by force, and, on a side note, if your man cheats, he was ALWAYS going to cheat no matter what you did. Nothing you can do about it.

Doubt The Rabbit said:

I really loathe sites that "explain" how to "attract men" or "attract women." 9/10 times they're very silly.

HOWEVER,
In response to oopsiedoop, men DON'T like to be bothered about the "status" of the relationship. That is, for the most part, something women obsess over. You don't NEED to know where you stand. You just need to let it BE and ENJOY it. That doesn't just go for women though, it goes for everybody. Too many people get too hung up in the friend/boyfriend/married aspect of it that they forget to enjoy each other. If your answer to his question, "Do you love me as your S.O.?" is, "Yes," then that should be good enough. Quit trying to monopolize each other's emotions. You can't win loyalty by force, and, on a side note, if your man cheats, he was ALWAYS going to cheat no matter what you did. Nothing you can do about it.

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If an assault charge doesn't bother you, then the ladies might get a kick out of what this one woman did to her cheating boyfriend a little north of 15 years go. She was aware of her boyfriend cheating, so she decided to make him pay royal. He came over one night and as usual they were going to have sex. She sweet talked him into trying something new, a little more kinky. He allowed her to cuff him to the bed. She then proceeded to insert a curling iron into his rectum, turned it on, and left the apartment.

He was heard screaming in pain by the next apartment over and was rescued.

Omh wtf! :s

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I am never letting someone chain me to anything. *shudders and has nightmares*

SophiaGrace said:

Omh wtf! :s

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I am never letting someone chain me to anything. *shudders and has nightmares*

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You'd be surprised at just how kinky some people are.

1. Anal Beads
2. Leather Whips
3. Candle Wax On Genitals
4. Velvet Robes
5. Toe Sucking
6. Pain
7. Motion Lotion
8. Animals
9. Costumes Of The lone Ranger
10. Tattoo Porn
11. Leather Masks
12. Being Urinated On
12. Being Defecated On
13 Nipple clips
14. Orange And Black Lighting
15. Exotic Oils And Creams
16. Glow In The Dark Condoms
17. Rubber Underwear
18. Edible Underwear
19. Coconut Scented Incense
20. Snow
21. Ice
22. Chocolate Dildos
23. Cactus Needles
24. Various Varieties Of Fruit
25. Choking
26. Neighbor's Pets
27. Chocolate Chip Cookies With Viagra In Them
28. Several Kinds Of Bongs
29. Smearing
30. Barry Manilow Records
Just to name a few.

Edible underwear.

It was actually the fact that she tortured him in that manner that horrified me...rather than the kinkiness.

SophiaGrace said:

Edible underwear.

It was actually the fact that she tortured him in that manner that horrified me...rather than the kinkiness.

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HaHaHa Sorry SophiaGrace. I misunderstood you. My apologies.

Idk you have to imagine that she just stood there while he pleaded and begged her to turn it off, then he started screaming in pain....and she just left.

*shudders*

weirdos man

How to attract men? Exist.

As a man, perhaps i can give a little advice. In order to attract men, they already have to be somewhat physically attracted to you. Sorry if any of those articles told you otherwise. this does NOT mean that all we care about is looks. It just means that in order for us to really notice you, you must appeal to us in some way. This does not mean a guy will never be attracted to a girl that he doesn't initially find attractive. It just means that it may take more time for us to look at you in that sort of way. Personally, I've hung out with girls that i wasn't really attracted to at first, probably considered average looking. After i've gotten to known them better, i've become more attracted to them because of their personality/wit.

One thing that i absolutely loathe is when a girl is WAY too needy. I honestly can't stand it. i don't know about every other guy, but i need my space. so probably a good tip is DON'T call/text him all the time. that's one way he'll get tired of you really quick. Also, we can't stand it when women pressure a relationship on us. I once had a girl that i was beginning to be attracted to, but she started becoming too possessive over me and kept asking things like "are we officially dating?" This was a big red flag for me and sent me running away. If a guy is seeing you, chances are he's interested in you.

When it comes to approaching, i personally don't see a problem with who initiates the first move. However, there are some men that feel emasculated by the gesture. Anywho, i will say good eye contact and smiling is important. I can't express how important a good smile is in a woman. SO DONT FORGET IT. and eye contact is important because if a woman can't look me directly in the eyes, i get the feeling she's not really interested or she's lacking self confidence. Self confidence and esteem is extremely important. If a woman is lacking these, it is a big turn off to me. If you're lacking these, at least make it appear that you aren't. Now if you're fairly attractive and you're approaching a guy, he may not be use to being approached. I know i usually don't get approached much by women and it throws me off a lot. cut him some slack if he's not extremely responsive. he may be in shock "HOLY honeysuckle A GIRL APPROACHED ME!" also if you have friends, keep them out of sight. he might get the feeling you're just ******* with him. One girl tried to do that to me once, but i saw right through her and i ended up telling her she was ugly (hit em where it hurts YEAH). LASTLY, whether or not you're an extremely attractive woman or not, please turn off your ***** shield. I understand the whole weeding out the "losers" thing, but a simple and direct "I'm not interested" will normally suffice. it really isn't necessary. However, If he keeps trying, then by all means activate ***** shield.

What i say may be up for debate, but I'm not really interested in arguing. I'm merely expressing how i see it and being honest about it. If you have any questions, i will try to answer them the best i can.

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Also, i would take most of what those articles say with a grain of salt

Half of the links on the OP seem to be advertisements. Take with a grain of salt.

kamya said:

weirdos man

How to attract men? Exist.

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LOL. So true.

I see where I made my mistake though. A selfish guy who really doesn't care about you isn't going to tell you where you stand. Of course you need to know this, on what planet would you not, but the topic is HOW TO ATTRACT MEN. So, the answer is: stand outside naked. What else do you need to know?

Now, if the topic is "How to find someone who's actually worth going out with", well .. where's the "tips" on that? I got no idea, but keeping self-respect first on your tip sheet is the place to start.

Oh, and Desolate Soul, I have some news that's going to stun you: women have eyes to see with. You've got a point that since men usually approach women, how women look takes precedence in the dynamic to a certain extent. Once you make the approach you've bought yourself the opportunity to wow them with your personality. But, it's a very rare woman who will be thrilled simply to be approached.

You don't need to know this on planet "chill the fresia out and just date the guy." Some men just don't like it when women are picking out baby's clothes from the very beginning.
Fact is, you can't stop anyone from doing what they're going to do. Best not to worry about all that labeling bullshit and just go along with whatever comes.

LOL, that's a riot. I'm supposed to take whatever honeysuckle you throw at me. You're serious.

It's 2011, dude. We got da powa.