Attraction. What do you look for ?

Mine are eye contact and a smile.

I usually stay out of these kinds of threads. I might reply later at home though.

EveWasFramed said:

I usually stay out of these kinds of threads. I might reply later at home though.

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I 'meet' a lot of women at work, serving them. Some I like and some I don't so much. I wondered this morning why I liked some and it occurred to me it was simple things like eye contact and a smiling face.

Like initial attraction? A smile and eye contact for sure, and I tend to prefer men who look more sensitive and feminine as opposed to muscles and manly-type men. Other than that...intelligence, compassion, witty sense of humour, kind...

Are we talking only physical attraction here?

Solivagant said:

Are we talking only physical attraction here?

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no, more initial attraction, somebody you haven't seen before.

Triple Bogey said:

Solivagant said:

Are we talking only physical attraction here?

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no, more initial attraction, somebody you haven't seen before.

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I don't understand, what's the difference? =/

Solivagant said:

Triple Bogey said:

Solivagant said:

Are we talking only physical attraction here?

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no, more initial attraction, somebody you haven't seen before.

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I don't understand, what's the difference? =/

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forget it then

Triple Bogey said:

forget it then

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I'm sorry, I didn't mean to offend. I just wanted to understand what you meant better.

Solivagant said:

Triple Bogey said:

Solivagant said:

Are we talking only physical attraction here?

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no, more initial attraction, somebody you haven't seen before.

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I don't understand, what's the difference? =/

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I think the difference is that split-second look you give someone, like passing on the street or something. I think most of us generally make a quick judgement of people you see, either you like the look of them or not or you're neutral. I think some of that could be physical, like hair or eye colour or basic body type, but I think what Triple Bogey means is more of a feeling...I don't know, am I close to explaining?? LOL...or just blabbing?

I guess boobs goes without saying. So I won't say it.

A smile - but not a big toothy smile, a sly smirky smile.

OK...I've given it some thought.

What do I look for? Nothing.
What do I notice? A friendly demeanor.

Persona more than anything. A girl with a pleasant face is more than enough, looks wise.

I really like it when a girl seems genuinely interested in you, just like, as a person. When they ask you questions about yourself and seem like they're actually interested. I like nice girls.

I like it when girls sit on my peepee.

Since I'm tall, I notice tall guys. Eye contact and a smile is nice too.
A guy who appears to be in a serious relationship with his smart phone won't get a second look from me

-Teresa

I notice eyes, with an intelligent gaze, and hands, seeing eloquent hands always does something to me. Like anybody else I notice if someone is "well built" but without a glimpse of intelligence in their face, my attention goes elsewhere. I love articulated, open people with a positive attitude, if one talks a lot (about interesting things) I am already halfway charmed.

Among the Sleep said:

I really like it when a girl seems genuinely interested in you, just like, as a person. When they ask you questions about yourself and seem like they're actually interested. I like nice girls.

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This.

Peaches said:

I notice eyes, with an intelligent gaze, and hands, seeing eloquent hands always does something to me. Like anybody else I notice if someone is "well built" but without a glimpse of intelligence in their face, my attention goes elsewhere. I love articulated, open people with a positive attitude, if one talks a lot (about interesting things) I am already halfway charmed.

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What if a guy seems quiet and a bit mysterious, the type who might be sitting in the corner? Does this type come off as too "cold" for you?

It's too hard to find anyone to warrant being picky over attraction.