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Animelover10102
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It's been almost 2 years that I have been in a relationship with someone-And my first ever. Seems pretty good for a first relationship, right? Well, after the first year, we began drifting apart-
We are in a long-distance relationship, living in different states, and we communicate via Facebook. We used to talk all the time, for hours. Now, he barely gets on, and when he does, he doesn't message me, or it takes forever for him to message back. I told him before that we don't have to talk everyday, because we never have anything to talk about, but I didn't mean like this. Sometimes, we go a month without talking to each other.
He also seems to like playing "gay" with his male friends. (He claims he is asexual, and bisexual.) I told him he needs to tone it down a bit, but he hasn't really.
Honestly, I've contemplated breaking it off many times, but I don't want him to do something stupid like cutting or hurting himself. (He used to be depressed.)
I feel like I don't even care anymore; I feel like I'm not even in a relationship. I just happen to have "something" with someone. I even find myself dreaming, and thinking about a boy I used to crush on back in Elementary School. I even ask old friends how he is doing. I seem to care more for him, than my boyfriend. Any advice on what to do?
We are in a long-distance relationship, living in different states, and we communicate via Facebook. We used to talk all the time, for hours. Now, he barely gets on, and when he does, he doesn't message me, or it takes forever for him to message back. I told him before that we don't have to talk everyday, because we never have anything to talk about, but I didn't mean like this. Sometimes, we go a month without talking to each other.
He also seems to like playing "gay" with his male friends. (He claims he is asexual, and bisexual.) I told him he needs to tone it down a bit, but he hasn't really.
Honestly, I've contemplated breaking it off many times, but I don't want him to do something stupid like cutting or hurting himself. (He used to be depressed.)
I feel like I don't even care anymore; I feel like I'm not even in a relationship. I just happen to have "something" with someone. I even find myself dreaming, and thinking about a boy I used to crush on back in Elementary School. I even ask old friends how he is doing. I seem to care more for him, than my boyfriend. Any advice on what to do?