JustIncubus
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So recently I had my birthday and I went into the city and feeling a little brave I asked out this really cute waitress, I was all suave and debonair, handed her a note with my number and to my surprise she texted me that night and we went for drinks the next night. We had an amazing time and I really felt happy with her. She looked gorgeous and we had all the same interests blah blah blah, he favorite band WAS INCUBUS AND I FLIPPED OUT AT THE TABLE for 5 seconds, all in all it was a great time and she said she wanted to go out again after the date had basically ended.
The next morning I receive a message from her stating that she doesn't think we are a romantic match and she prefer a platonic relationship even though "she thinks I am really great" and that jazz. As much as I shouldn't have felt anything, I was completely devastated.
Now here is my question, which this is mostly addressed to males, but ladies, you are welcome to answer to.
Do I fight for her(aggressive) and get her to like and be a man and be mighty and all alpha dog on her or do I agree(passive) and give up?
Some would you you take the bull by the horns and be a man, but is that disrespectful towards her, pushing it when she doesn't want to or is laying down and taking it the ***** move?
Honestly, I am confused as all hell. I can't stop thinking about it.
The next morning I receive a message from her stating that she doesn't think we are a romantic match and she prefer a platonic relationship even though "she thinks I am really great" and that jazz. As much as I shouldn't have felt anything, I was completely devastated.
Now here is my question, which this is mostly addressed to males, but ladies, you are welcome to answer to.
Do I fight for her(aggressive) and get her to like and be a man and be mighty and all alpha dog on her or do I agree(passive) and give up?
Some would you you take the bull by the horns and be a man, but is that disrespectful towards her, pushing it when she doesn't want to or is laying down and taking it the ***** move?
Honestly, I am confused as all hell. I can't stop thinking about it.