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lonelyfairy
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**Note!! This thread isn't about hating anyone who wants to have children and start a family or want to get them in the future or have them already.
We people are different and want different things in life, if you're happy, I'm happy.**
Hello ALL. : )
I wanted to make a thread about this, since I've never heard that someone else besides me is completely 100% childfree, which means that the person doesn't want to get children ever in their lifetime for different various of reasons (whatever the reason is, it varies and it's personal decision for everyone etc.).
Childfree is different term than childless though! Since childless people don't have children for whatever reason in the current moment but want to have them in the future whereas childfree don't want to have them never. Just wanted to point that out, lol.
So... I feel like society doesn't accept my decisions of being childfree. Especially if being a woman who doesn't want to get kids ever. ''Waaaait?? But how that is possible?! Of course you want babies! Everyone wants them.''. No, I would get a sterilization just right in this minute if I could, too bad I would have to be at least 30 years old by the laws in this country and EVEN then doctors wouldn't want to do it. I always get questions like ''You will change your mind'' or ''When you meet the right guy, you will want to have babies!'' or ''You're too young to know that''. Well... I've known this already for 8 years, haven't changed my mind yet.
I like children though, they're cute and precious. : ) Just don't want to get own never in this lifetime, I am ok for seeing other people's kids when walking in the city or something and that is more than enough for me. Adoption is also out of the question.
My question is like the title says:
Any other childfree people here? Why are you childfree? Have you had any issues for finding a partner because of it? Thanks in advance!
I feel so alone with this...
We people are different and want different things in life, if you're happy, I'm happy.**
Hello ALL. : )
I wanted to make a thread about this, since I've never heard that someone else besides me is completely 100% childfree, which means that the person doesn't want to get children ever in their lifetime for different various of reasons (whatever the reason is, it varies and it's personal decision for everyone etc.).
Childfree is different term than childless though! Since childless people don't have children for whatever reason in the current moment but want to have them in the future whereas childfree don't want to have them never. Just wanted to point that out, lol.
So... I feel like society doesn't accept my decisions of being childfree. Especially if being a woman who doesn't want to get kids ever. ''Waaaait?? But how that is possible?! Of course you want babies! Everyone wants them.''. No, I would get a sterilization just right in this minute if I could, too bad I would have to be at least 30 years old by the laws in this country and EVEN then doctors wouldn't want to do it. I always get questions like ''You will change your mind'' or ''When you meet the right guy, you will want to have babies!'' or ''You're too young to know that''. Well... I've known this already for 8 years, haven't changed my mind yet.
I like children though, they're cute and precious. : ) Just don't want to get own never in this lifetime, I am ok for seeing other people's kids when walking in the city or something and that is more than enough for me. Adoption is also out of the question.
My question is like the title says:
Any other childfree people here? Why are you childfree? Have you had any issues for finding a partner because of it? Thanks in advance!
I feel so alone with this...