Hi there, one question is really nagging me since a long time: I clearly am a social loser, all my life I spent at the outskirts of social circles, and now once again, older and wiser but not much more interesting I find that in these new groups that I ended up into, related to work and common interests etc, I once again don't fit and the others make friends with each other and I don't.
I can make some guesses about why this happens (leave out: bad breath, bad manners, bad conversation skills; possibly: too sensitive, too deep, inability to connect at emotional level) , BUT I would give really anything to know from someone who can't stand me why they don't (especially when I find them very interesting, and I am not talking about boys and girls, but just friendships).
I was told by someone that I was too friendly, that is possible, and I guess that I seem needy even if I am really not (not that much at least), but is there some way to know why one is a social failure?
I can make some guesses about why this happens (leave out: bad breath, bad manners, bad conversation skills; possibly: too sensitive, too deep, inability to connect at emotional level) , BUT I would give really anything to know from someone who can't stand me why they don't (especially when I find them very interesting, and I am not talking about boys and girls, but just friendships).
I was told by someone that I was too friendly, that is possible, and I guess that I seem needy even if I am really not (not that much at least), but is there some way to know why one is a social failure?