Lost Drifter
Well-known member
Does anyone else do this?
I overhear someone talking about a movie they would like to see and if I have it, I lend them my copy. The same goes for books or video games. If I see an offer for free newspapers on my way to work, I pick up copies for everyone in my office. If I go to make myself a drink, I ask everyone else if they want me to get them one too.
I used to think I was just being kind but I wonder if, perhaps subconsciously, I'm attempting to buy their favour without realising it. I never get these gestures returned back to me so is this another 'thing' that some lonely people do?
I overhear someone talking about a movie they would like to see and if I have it, I lend them my copy. The same goes for books or video games. If I see an offer for free newspapers on my way to work, I pick up copies for everyone in my office. If I go to make myself a drink, I ask everyone else if they want me to get them one too.
I used to think I was just being kind but I wonder if, perhaps subconsciously, I'm attempting to buy their favour without realising it. I never get these gestures returned back to me so is this another 'thing' that some lonely people do?