Called an escort and got robbed...

[sothatwasmylife]

And I also know from first hand experience just how unfulfilling paying for sex can be
but looking at options that maybe at least create the illusion of having intimacy with a partner is possibly a better route to go down .

 

[Somnambulist]

I actually thought my post was entirely relevant to this thread and for entirely obvious reasons...loneliness and a desire for sex are two absolute fundamentals that make major contributions to unhappiness your not seriously telling me that in 2016 this site is clinginging onto puritanical viewpoints more in keeping with the 1950s.
As for the right hand comment I do  have a personal viewpoint and  it is my thinking that this  form of release can become deeply undermining

Hi, sorry, I can't tell if you're addressing my posts ? You did mention the right hand comment.

Yes, right hand love can be quite pathetic in some cases (it is, in my case) ... but to me, it is fundamentally far more acceptable and justifiable than paying for sex, because DIY is something one can do for him/herself. There is no money involved. To me, money and sex are oil and water.

Right hand love is the lesser of two evils, in my opinion.

 

[sothatwasmylife]

I actually thought my post was entirely relevant to this thread and for entirely obvious reasons...loneliness and a desire for sex are two absolute fundamentals that make major contributions to unhappiness your not seriously telling me that in 2016 this site is clinginging onto puritanical viewpoints more in keeping with the 1950s.
As for the right hand comment I do  have a personal viewpoint and  it is my thinking that this  form of release can become deeply undermining

Hi, sorry, I can't tell if you're addressing my posts ? You did mention the right hand comment.

Yes, right hand love can be quite pathetic in some cases (it is, in my case) ... but to me, it is fundamentally far more acceptable and justifiable than paying for sex, because DIY is something one can do for him/herself. There is no money involved. To me, money and sex are oil and water.

Right hand love is the lesser of two evils, in my opinion.  

Yep I got a bit confused on account of the no further posts required..

Well that's your stance and that's fine ...I was more interested to be honest in getting replies to the 'realistic doll' option, what people's thoughts were but it's a bit of an unnerving subject so maybe people would be reluctant to respond... I've already said I think it's worth exploring and am in the process of doing exactly that.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I wonder if, one day, they will have a clone-a-doll like they do clone-a-penis.

 

[Sci-Fi]

I actually thought my post was entirely relevant to this thread and for entirely obvious reasons...loneliness and a desire for sex are two absolute fundamentals that make major contributions to unhappiness your not seriously telling me that in 2016 this site is clinginging onto puritanical viewpoints more in keeping with the 1950s.
As for the right hand comment I do  have a personal viewpoint and  it is my thinking that this  form of release can become deeply undermining

Hi, sorry, I can't tell if you're addressing my posts ? You did mention the right hand comment.

Yes, right hand love can be quite pathetic in some cases (it is, in my case) ... but to me, it is fundamentally far more acceptable and justifiable than paying for sex, because DIY is something one can do for him/herself. There is no money involved. To me, money and sex are oil and water.

Right hand love is the lesser of two evils, in my opinion.  

Yep I got a bit confused on account of the no further posts required..

Well that's your stance and that's fine ...I was more interested to be honest in getting replies to the 'realistic doll' option, what people's thoughts were but it's a bit of an unnerving subject so maybe people would be reluctant to respond... I've already said I think it's worth exploring and am in the process of doing exactly that.

You have a thread discussing that topic already, leave it there and don't hijack another persons thread.
Thanks

 

[ardour]

This probably wouldn't have happened 'on site' in a brothel where "staff" have to answer to management (glorified pimps). That is assuming it's been decriminalized where you are. But of course there are hundreds of other reasons not to do this.

 

[ardour]

It's clear as day that this is a self-esteem issue. Thinking that someone who's been hired to do a job, or many jobs (pun intended), is worried about your physical appearance and not just about what they'll get out of the whole deal is incredibly naive and, bordering, depressing. 

There might be limits to what they're willing to tolerate in regards to paying clients. They are still human beings after all.

I'm not saying that's the reason for what happened here, it would be one of many self-esteem obliterating downsides of paying for it though (ignoring moral issues).   Assuming you possess half a brain, you'll be quite aware of how repulsive she in all likelihood finds you. That alone would make the experience very negative and not worth having.

 

[Somnambulist]

Assuming you possess half a brain, you'll be quite aware of how repulsive she in all likelihood finds you.

I'm drunk right now, but what the fresia ?!!!

 

[ardour]

Assuming you possess half a brain, you'll be quite aware of how repulsive she in all likelihood finds you.

I'm drunk right now, but what the fresia ?!!!

I don't get what's hard to understand here.

I was referring to sex workers who's "services" have been solicited. I  doubt many of them find any of their clients attractive. And any man with a modicum of intelligence and sensitivity is going to be aware of that.

Transactional sex with someone who doesn't know you, like you, or find you the least bit attractive is not likely to be a very pleasant experience - unless of course you can turn parts of your mind off and view the experience as physical gratification (for yourself), and not really care. Many of us can't do that though and it's likely to make depression and self-loathing even worse.

 

[DarkSelene]

It's clear as day that this is a self-esteem issue. Thinking that someone who's been hired to do a job, or many jobs (pun intended), is worried about your physical appearance and not just about what they'll get out of the whole deal is incredibly naive and, bordering, depressing. 

There might be limits to what they're willing to tolerate in regards to paying clients. They are still human beings after all.

I'm not saying that's the reason for what happened here, it would be one of many self-esteem obliterating downsides of paying for it though (ignoring moral issues).   Assuming you possess half a brain, you'll be quite aware of how repulsive she in all likelihood finds you. That alone would make the experience very negative and not worth having.

You're completely right about that. Of course, I don't think even for professionals it's an easy thing to do, pretending you're sexually attracted to someone you find repulsive, but I think in this specific case that was not the cause of the robbery itself, you already know that.
It might become a vicious cycle (I don't know about the OP, but...), self-esteem issues might make it harder for him to attract women, so paying of course will be easier, and then there's the whole self-loathing after the whole experience, because it's not the same as with someone who's actually interested in you... Unless, like you said, he can turn off those parts of his mind.

 

[Tuathaniel]

However I think the reason for this was because she found me very unattractive and simply didn't want to do it with me.
I am still stunned by this ordeal and will probably never call an escort again, as i've become really unattractive for women recently.

I think the reason for this was because she's stuck in a "job" that's demeaning and degrading, that only exists because men are selfish and don't care about how their treatment of women affects them, and that she simply doesn't want to do it at all, with anyone, and instead will always try to get out of it if she can.

 

[bleed_the_freak]

I'd rather make love to my right hand all my life than hire someone for sex. I don't consider sex a favor. It's far simpler and purer than that.

+1

 

[Sci-Fi]

Please choose your words carefully as so they don't come off as insulting towards anyone else. I've seen a few remarks here that could easily be taken the wrong way as insulting towards the OP or others. Thanks.

 

[Hawx79]

I have not been completely honest.

Besides the sex I wanted one full hour of girlfriend experience with talking and drinking and coming multiple times, she only had 1 condom and wanted to leave after the first deed. So I then called the agency and demanded I wanted what I paid her for and the she talked then in private with her agency. She said ok and told me she would get more condoms from the car, she went outside to her chauffeur, he was ready and they drove away. I called the agency again but they didn't answer. I wil go to the Police tomorrow for it.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Honestly, I'd leave it alone if I were you. You don't know what anyone could do to you. Besides that, she's not your girlfriend, and if you called them back specifically to complain, they probably didn't take it kindly. You can't really pay anyone to be your girlfriend, whether they advertise it or not. If she didn't want to spend time with you, she wasn't going to anyway.

 

[Paraiyar]

However I think the reason for this was because she found me very unattractive and simply didn't want to do it with me.
I am still stunned by this ordeal and will probably never call an escort again, as i've become really unattractive for women recently.

I think the reason for this was because she's stuck in a "job" that's demeaning and degrading, that only exists because men are selfish and don't care about how their treatment of women affects them, and that she simply doesn't want to do it at all, with anyone, and instead will always try to get out of it if she can.

Hey, how about I make a negative generalization about women as an entire gender based on the actions of a few? 

Aside from that, I doubt every man who uses an escort is how you describe them to be.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I don't believe every escort is forced into it. Some of them WANT to be escorts....

 

[Somnambulist]

I think the reason for this was because she's stuck in a "job" that's demeaning and degrading, that only exists because men are selfish and don't care about how their treatment of women affects them, and that she simply doesn't want to do it at all, with anyone, and instead will always try to get out of it if she

Hey, how about I make a negative generalization about women as an entire gender based on the actions of a few? 

Aside from that, I doubt every man who uses an escort is how you describe them to be.

Paraiyar: +1

 

[constant stranger]

This thread is greatly informative to me. If I ever do seek the services of a paid escort I am now much more clued in on what to expect.

 

[GrayAndLonesome]

Dayum! I feel bad for you, hawx!

I know the lonely feeling that you've experienced and the urge to call these escorts, because I am in a similar situation. I've moved to my current area away from family members and friends. Only one college friend resides in my state but lives 50-something miles away.

I will not lie, ....I have had urges to call escorts for "fun".

However, I have heard horror stories like what you've experienced, with these ho's asking for money up front, and running off with your cash.

If I were you, I'd go to a location, like an incall location, for GFE's. Just my 2 cent.