sothatwasmylife said:
I actually thought my post was entirely relevant to this thread and for entirely obvious reasons...loneliness and a desire for sex are two absolute fundamentals that make major contributions to unhappiness your not seriously telling me that in 2016 this site is clinginging onto puritanical viewpoints more in keeping with the 1950s.
As for the right hand comment I do have a personal viewpoint and it is my thinking that this form of release can become deeply undermining
Hi, sorry, I can't tell if you're addressing my posts ? You did mention the right hand comment.
Yes, right hand love can be quite pathetic in some cases (it is, in my case) ... but to me, it is fundamentally far more acceptable and justifiable than paying for sex, because DIY is something one can do for him/herself. There is no money involved. To me, money and sex are oil and water.
Right hand love is the lesser of two evils, in my opinion.