ladyforsaken said:
What if you just don't give a **** what they think?
How can you not care what they think, when your own lifelong experience shows you time and time again that women are not interested in you?
Then that forces you to become self-aware in the hopes that you might be able to have some positive impact on what they think, which leads to analyzing the moment in real-time, rather than just living in the moment and letting it flow.
To do the opposite of this would be to keep self-awareness to a minimum and just hope that a woman likes you exactly as you are.. but if that's not happening, then you're probably going to become introspective.
On and on it goes like a vicious cycle...