Hey forumers!
Maybe this problem is a bit strange. Or maybe there's a deeper issue beneath. Anyway; I find it very hard to flirt with girls I meet in my day-to-day business because I feel it'd be so cheesy. For example, if I'm in a party with lots of guys and very few girls, I can't show interest because it'd be "so typical". So what I do is I ignore the girl in those situations, so I can be "better than the rest" and not "just another guy". It might also be a way to show I'm not "pathetic".
Is this common? What ideas spring into your mind?
Maybe this problem is a bit strange. Or maybe there's a deeper issue beneath. Anyway; I find it very hard to flirt with girls I meet in my day-to-day business because I feel it'd be so cheesy. For example, if I'm in a party with lots of guys and very few girls, I can't show interest because it'd be "so typical". So what I do is I ignore the girl in those situations, so I can be "better than the rest" and not "just another guy". It might also be a way to show I'm not "pathetic".
Is this common? What ideas spring into your mind?