Scootch
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So I've been seeing a guy for two years now, im 22 and he is 38. I love him very much and he loves me.... we maybe see each other two or three times a week at most though. The biggest reason for this is that he still lives with his parents.
After we'd been going out a while he got a lovely flat, I helped him choose it, I was so pleased as I thought I had helped him make a long overdue step forward. 17 days later he was back in with his folks.
He tells me he's happy where he is, and of course I love him so I want that. But I am at a stage where I want to spend much more time with him and really feel like we are in a proper relationship, and have our own space.... We've been through a lot together and he is the most wonderful person I have ever met, but I am worried that I might have to break up with him if he doesnt show any signs of wanting to move in with me, and as such, move forward with our relationship.
Am I crazy for hanging around?
After we'd been going out a while he got a lovely flat, I helped him choose it, I was so pleased as I thought I had helped him make a long overdue step forward. 17 days later he was back in with his folks.
He tells me he's happy where he is, and of course I love him so I want that. But I am at a stage where I want to spend much more time with him and really feel like we are in a proper relationship, and have our own space.... We've been through a lot together and he is the most wonderful person I have ever met, but I am worried that I might have to break up with him if he doesnt show any signs of wanting to move in with me, and as such, move forward with our relationship.
Am I crazy for hanging around?