Well idk im a special case I honestly dont find men very attractive to look at… to the point I thought I was a lesbian or something
cant help that, so theres very little about them I like so small things like their height and eye colour are huge to me, but its not a choice… i didnt choose to like these things. After they tick maybe all of 4 boxes in the looks department of must haves I pray I can find another 10 boxes of substance.
I think the argument about belittling short men is more my passion i’d never do something like that. To the point even when asked I dont specify because I know it can be hurtful, you know?
Women do have all of the best qualities in the looks department. Okay well, in every department, but have you ever seen this NBA player Kemba Walker? That's a gorgeous man lol. Do you find women attractive or just men not as attractive?
We probably would find no common ground on the height thing. Obviously I think I'm right, but in no way do I think that makes me somehow better. I'm sorry if it came off that way. I definitely was like way a dick about all of that and I'm not really sure why. I am really sincerely sorry about the way I chose to write my first response.
I don't believe in censorship but I do believe in self censorship. I think it's good that you don't tell short men, "hey I'm not going to be into you because you're short." What good would that do? I don't really think heightism, ageism, etc should be considered in the dating world. I also don't see logical reasons why someone would be bothered by heightism, but I do agree some would, and it's kind of you not to point out their shortcomings.
I think the point about liking rare qualities may land viscerally for some. Paul Rudd being sexy hits different for men than Alexander Skarsgard. We inherently have no value. If not for monogamy and family structure, etc. we know the few biggest strongest men would replace us all. So for guys I think we're less likely to need everything about us to feel loved.
Does wanting to feel like everything about you is perfect to him ever drive you crazy? Like if you start to wonder about the little things he may really not like that he won't say because he loves the package. Realistically you probably have earlobes or a mole or weird areolas or something that he tries not to think about. Even Megan Fox has toe thumbs.