Eureka7 said:
After a long while I've decided that I'm finished with social interaction. As days go on I become angrier and more prone to isolating myself from everyone else. This need to conform to a stagnant society has taken its toll and I want nothing to do with it anymore. I go to high school for the last few months before graduation (I'll be 19 on Saint Patrick's Day) and see nothing worth liking. My "friends" have amused themselves with me and have gpne on to do everything that I've ever wanted to do, all while doing nothing to attain it. The standard rabble that go out of their way to annoy passerby hav been broken down and run off by me, because if one does not react the way that these subhuman freaks want them to, then they are "scary" and "wierd" and should be avoided if they value homeostasis. My mother is domineering and threatens me with eviction and calls to the armed forces. I've also given up on sex and relationships and am choosing to abstain from any amorous behaviour with anyone at all. Besides, women are only after one's livelihood, why would I give this to them? This being said, how can I do this effectively? I'm avoiding everyone I know but they can' to understand. Any methods on living alone and shutting people out would be appreciated.
Okay I'm still very young but I'll tell you something here what ever I know
Eureka7 said:
After a long while I've decided that I'm finished with social interaction. As days go on I become angrier and more prone to isolating myself from everyone else.
If that's the decision you've taken
Okay I can somewhat understand well everyone has good and bad times for some "GOOD" people bad time lasts a little longer than it should, I understand you may be going through a lean phase right now but in the end it's your life and you can live the way you want.You may have your own reason for this,I don't want to get into it.
Eureka7 said:
I've also given up on sex and relationships and am choosing to abstain from any amorous behaviour with anyone at all.
So have you decided to stay single forever or is it just a decision you have taken in "ANGER" and to prove your close ones and to other people that you can live that way.Here if it is the first option that is to stay single forever then go ahead it's a great choice after all being single can give you unlimited benefits and freedom but if it is the LATTER choice then I would say that decision may or most probably will change later, once root cause of the problem is removed or if things get better with time.
Reasons:In the first case there is a strong sense of purpose/thinking and self motivation to remain single forever(
LIKE ME) and hence is likely to remain steady/rock solid ,but it is not in the second case.So weigh the options carefully and decide what's best for you.
Eureka7 said:
This being said, how can I do this effectively? I'm avoiding everyone I know but they can' to understand. Any methods on living alone and shutting people out would be appreciated.
Trust me it's not something you would like to do but then there are plenty of ways to do so.I can do it with relative ease(
but I won't unless there is a very good/convincing reason for me to do so).Some will work some won't it depends on people.So choose what applies to you(
your nature/type)
NOTE(WARNING):-
Before you read ahead think carefully weigh the pros and cons, merits/demerits for yourself and do it only and only when absolutely necessary and when you're convinced that this is the only best possible way and that they truly deserve it.These methods should be your last option and not the first and last option.So please be very careful before you do this as you could be doing permanent/irrepairable damage to other people's feelings and forever break relationships (which you may regret later on as you grow old) and moreover they are after all humans too just like you and causing and especially your close/loved ones even if they've hurt you and it's never a good thing to hurt people easier said than done at least not intentionally(especially good people).Moreover it also indicates some immaturity on your part(not 100%) but some yes.So think,think a lot and then only do.GOOD LUCK
Here are the methods:-
1.The most difficult thing to do is "PRETEND THAT THEY DON'T EXIST" or they never existed for you and that they are invisible.It is very difficult to do so if they are your loved ones or ones who care/cared for you.
2.If you were an extrovert before you have to quickly become an introvert because in my opinion introverts are known to living alone and shutting people/handling people better in these areas(
no offence to extroverts here)
3.If you were approachable/friendly, smiling and a warm person you have turn into exactly the opposite that is unfriendly/not smiling and completely COLD AND UNAPPROACHABLE. How you do it is up to you.
4.Have no contact or communication with them whatsoever and if they try do not respond or do anything whatsoever and completely stop caring about them in every way possible.This method will be hard for those who are naturally caring by nature.
5.You should completely become self-centered and self-absorbed as a person and concentrate only on yourself and all that matters to you should be you alone and no one else.
6.Forget about people concentrate on your career and climbing up the corporate ladder and becoming successful
7.Become a workaholic in that way you won't have time for people because they will no longer remain your priority and they will come last or not come at all and what comes to you in your mind would be " YOUR WORK".
There are some more methods but these are the most effective ones and will most certainly work on most people but may not work on all so at times you have to innovate new methods.the above mentioned methods are my viewpoints only.