TheSolitaryMan
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At what age did you first get your taste of "independance"?
I ask because as a 20 year old male, I feel like a total shut-in right now. My parents arent' Draconian people or anything, in fact they're really great to me, but all through my life I've never sort of been allowed to just do my own thing in my own time.
When I was a kid I was not allowed to play in the streets with others, stuff like that. Now in my adult life, I can't go out when I want either because I'm not "allowed" to use my car.
It's sort of really getting to me. All my college acquaintances I speak with seem jealous that I live at home, getting meals cooked for me, not having to pay bills etc.
And it is great in that respect. But on the other hand, I've never been out socialising or anything since my early teens. Once every couple of years I might go to a small party or something. From that point of view, I really crave my own place.
Am I a loser? I guess. I just don't know what I should change about my life, if anything.
I ask because as a 20 year old male, I feel like a total shut-in right now. My parents arent' Draconian people or anything, in fact they're really great to me, but all through my life I've never sort of been allowed to just do my own thing in my own time.
When I was a kid I was not allowed to play in the streets with others, stuff like that. Now in my adult life, I can't go out when I want either because I'm not "allowed" to use my car.
It's sort of really getting to me. All my college acquaintances I speak with seem jealous that I live at home, getting meals cooked for me, not having to pay bills etc.
And it is great in that respect. But on the other hand, I've never been out socialising or anything since my early teens. Once every couple of years I might go to a small party or something. From that point of view, I really crave my own place.
Am I a loser? I guess. I just don't know what I should change about my life, if anything.