eolithicman
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Hi all, I'm in my late 40s from Manchester UK, several months out of a long relationship, i was just wondering if there were any other mature lonely people out there? or am i an exception to the rule
eolithicman said:.... i was just wondering if there were any other mature lonely people out there? or am i an exception to the rule
eolithicman said:Hi all, I'm in my late 40s from Manchester UK, several months out of a long relationship, i was just wondering if there were any other mature lonely people out there? or am i an exception to the rule
Doing time in NY said:eolithicman said:Hi all, I'm in my late 40s from Manchester UK, several months out of a long relationship, i was just wondering if there were any other mature lonely people out there? or am i an exception to the rule
I don't think loneliness is an age I think it has to do with the decisions we make in our lives and the people for who we surround ourselves with. Those who seem to be the best for us in the beginning through time become the worst or do we become the worst because we have choosen badly in the beginning. Do we choose people because we want to be wanted so badly in the beginning we marry or move in with people we know aren't good for us because there their? We need to be loved and desired so badly that we'll do anything to have it! I just turned 50 last week and I've been married 26 years and my marriage isn't exactly what I want or need but I'm in therpy with him and we are trying. Things we did to eachother years ago seem to be the things that have come between us now when we need eachother the most "I love you but I'm not in love with you" seems to resinate in your sole after 25 years. Does anyone get the true love forever, GOD someone has to or this marriage thing wouldn't have lasted for millions of years...
Why do you think these forums are so popular, People need People there is no way around it period.
Lonesome Crow said:I'm in my 40's. Got out of a long term relationship that turned toxic.
It took me a while to recovered or adjust from that.
I'm feeling much better now.
Life is kind of wierd and new to me in a new weird way.
It'll be all-right as long as I stay all right.
I still have challenges in the relationship department.
As much as i don't wanna put a blanket or generalize women from my past experince,
I still do (if i run with it) or I'm having a hard time of tursting people or women.
It's still black and white to me....I'll either put a woman in the godess section or the pyscho
***** section.
On a good day...I think all women belongs in the pyshco ***** section
I know it's how I feel and it's my problems or challenges I must get through somehow.
I know not everyone have the same feelings about women and life as i do...its ok.
Minus said:eolithicman said:.... i was just wondering if there were any other mature lonely people out there? or am i an exception to the rule
The majority of users here are younger but that has nothing to do with any relationship between age and loneliness. It is a reflection of how different age groups use the internet.
For example in a poll of 2,012 adults age 18 and over, of the internet users, 36% of the users age 18 to 29 say that they frequently used instant messaging, that dropped to 18% for the 30-49 age group and to 12% for those 50 and older.
There was no information specifically on forum usage but it seems likely that older internet users, lonely or not, are under represented in forums.
Yes there are countless lonely mature people in the general population. Age does not make them immune. Mature people also experence losses and can become isolated.
Even here we have some members who are of retirement age.
Doing time in NY said:Lonesome Crow,
Your spot on in the defination of women. Either there jealous, petty horrid humans or there sitting there trying to steal you spouse or your look or your nail salon, etc. I too have had nothing but trouble with some women, they seem to be in the same catagory JEALOUS of what ever you have or look like or your childrens attributes or your husbands pay check or your house. I started out at 18 a Flight Attendant and boy oh boy do you see women at there worst, I can't tell you how well they treated the plain flight attendants and the pretty and or beautiful (F.A.'s for short) were treated like dirt this is when I learned what I was in for the rest of my life. No matter where I went in this world or what country I was in the women were the same everywhere. As I grew older nothing changed and today they still have there petty idiotic trouble I delt with in my teens.
This is what I learned to help ME, be as nice and sweet to them always say the nicest things to them smile and never loose your composure they HATE this and it makes them crazy really crazy. No matter how nasty they become you stay calm and kind evenn if your ready to blow go to the bathroom gather your composure once again and right back to the crown. They eventually they tire of talking behind your back and move on to another.
Now Loneliness this is a bit harder. When we were children we were basically forced to make friends in grade school by junior high we have learned the game and in high school and college we learn to perfect it. then we go into the work force and we still find those WOMEN and the men that we'd vomit before we'd date them only the ones that make your knees wobble. You marry, you have children and years go by, time and time again you and your spouce grow farther and farther apart because no one taught us how to keep our marriage HAPPY and our sex life wild and sexy. This is where loneliness comes in for both men and women. We love our spouce but we somehow aren't in love any longer because we didn't nourish our marriage likie we did our children that is why 63% of american marriages end in failure...
Financial problems, what if problems, you did it! problems.
Then we run to the internet trying to find someone to talk to so we aren't so lonely.
If we learned how to all the items above we would be playing tennis with loads of friends and not lonely.
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