gypsytrip
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I'm a jealous person by nature. Usually just when it comes to guys though.
I can't seem to make it STOP!!! I'm in a long-distance relationship. It's been two loooooong months and whenever he talks to or mentions a girl, the beast comes out!!
Whaaat? Stalk his Facebook page? I don't do that. Uhh...it just comes up in my news feed. No stalking going on here folks.
Maybe it's stemmed from trust issues. But there is definitely some suspicious behavior going on. My man is visiting me in three months but he's not staying with ME when he comes, nooo...he's staying with another girl. They're "just friends" and he reallyyyyy likes me and gypsytrip (cause that's my name hehe), "there's something about your aura that draws me in. I like you soooo much and I'm coming just to visit YOU." How'm I supposed to know if he's lying! He's all the way on the other side of the globe, he could be saying this to every girl!
Am I being a typical, insecure butt? Do I need to grow up and learn to trust? This is my first relationship and I'm scared to death of being hurt. I feel the need to stay on my guard.
Advice? Stories of the benefits/pitfalls of jealousy?
I can't seem to make it STOP!!! I'm in a long-distance relationship. It's been two loooooong months and whenever he talks to or mentions a girl, the beast comes out!!
Whaaat? Stalk his Facebook page? I don't do that. Uhh...it just comes up in my news feed. No stalking going on here folks.
Maybe it's stemmed from trust issues. But there is definitely some suspicious behavior going on. My man is visiting me in three months but he's not staying with ME when he comes, nooo...he's staying with another girl. They're "just friends" and he reallyyyyy likes me and gypsytrip (cause that's my name hehe), "there's something about your aura that draws me in. I like you soooo much and I'm coming just to visit YOU." How'm I supposed to know if he's lying! He's all the way on the other side of the globe, he could be saying this to every girl!
Am I being a typical, insecure butt? Do I need to grow up and learn to trust? This is my first relationship and I'm scared to death of being hurt. I feel the need to stay on my guard.
Advice? Stories of the benefits/pitfalls of jealousy?