JustLost said:Incognita said:well, i was just curious...why were u with her in the 1st place, how long and why broke up...
....and maybe why not tell the whole story?
This kind of relationships always puzzzzzzzled me ....
As tyra banks says ,looking pretty in her comfy couch ,...:" Sooo, tell us about it"
No problem Tyra...uh...Incognita.
I met her on a BBS that a friend and I ran. For those of you too young to remember, a BBS (Bulletin Board Service) was a pre-internet message board. You called in with a 1200 baud modem and could post messages and reply. We started talking one day and eventually ended up meeting...and falling in love.
The fact that she had kids didn't even phase me. I liked her too much to let it get in the way. They were all great, not a brat in the bunch and I got along with all of them.
We talked about living together, getting married, etc, but for some reason things never materialized. It was no one's fault, we were just big procrastinators.
Things came to a halt when one evening a man with a ladder broke into her upstairs bedroom while she was home alone. I won't go into detail but he basically did terrible things for hours and left her for dead. Amazingly, she lived.
After that happened, I guess she decided she wanted to start her life over fresh. This didn't include me and she stopped returning my phonecalls. I think perhaps she simply couldn't deal with a relationship at that point. I understand why she had to let me go but I was still devastated. We were together for 6 years.
Anyway, there's my tragic tale...and one of the many reasons why I'm a very sad person.
Maybe I should have started a different thread. I hope I didn't derail this one too much.
Dude, she was probably so emotionally messed up. I can't believe you let her leave after that