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Some_Bloke72
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I know its the right thing to do...I just want to figure out how to go about doing it in the least painful way possible.
**sighs**
I suppose I'll just cut right to the chase: http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=31897
If you've read that thread then you already know what I know about myself. How for most of my life I've been nothing but a burden to everyone around me. Even now, by posting this I run the risk of bringing you down with me.
But I kinda need your help with something.
You see, although she claims that I'm not a burden on her (and I believe her) its only a matter of time before I become nothing but a burden to my girlfriend as well.
I do love her, more than I've loved anyone. Which is why I don't want her to be dragged down with me. Its only a matter of time before I ruin her life.
So that's why I'm thinking about breaking up with her. But, I don't want to hurt her, that's the same reason why I'm breaking up with her in the first place. She deserves someone far better than me, someone who isn't going to drag her down, become nothing but a burden.
My friends are the same in that case, which is why I'm going to try and separate myself from them. I don't want them to suffer the same fate as my family has for over eighteen years.
That will be less difficult. It will be upsetting for both of us and it will undoutably hurt them but its for their own good. My girlfriend is a different story, well same in that I need to separate myself from her and the best way to do that is a break-up.
But what's the least painful way to break-up with someone? As I've probably said multiple times in this post: I don't want to hurt her, that's why I need to end our relationship as staying around me for long enough will drag her down and hurt her, far more than any break-up could.
**sighs**
I suppose I'll just cut right to the chase: http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=31897
If you've read that thread then you already know what I know about myself. How for most of my life I've been nothing but a burden to everyone around me. Even now, by posting this I run the risk of bringing you down with me.
But I kinda need your help with something.
You see, although she claims that I'm not a burden on her (and I believe her) its only a matter of time before I become nothing but a burden to my girlfriend as well.
I do love her, more than I've loved anyone. Which is why I don't want her to be dragged down with me. Its only a matter of time before I ruin her life.
So that's why I'm thinking about breaking up with her. But, I don't want to hurt her, that's the same reason why I'm breaking up with her in the first place. She deserves someone far better than me, someone who isn't going to drag her down, become nothing but a burden.
My friends are the same in that case, which is why I'm going to try and separate myself from them. I don't want them to suffer the same fate as my family has for over eighteen years.
That will be less difficult. It will be upsetting for both of us and it will undoutably hurt them but its for their own good. My girlfriend is a different story, well same in that I need to separate myself from her and the best way to do that is a break-up.
But what's the least painful way to break-up with someone? As I've probably said multiple times in this post: I don't want to hurt her, that's why I need to end our relationship as staying around me for long enough will drag her down and hurt her, far more than any break-up could.