ahaikulife
Well-known member
So,
I have no friends currently. I met a woman online, through a dating website, although, I in no way want to date anybody. There are still cinders burning at my heart from my last breakup. The thought of another relationship makes me sick, and makes me want to hide from the world, and not leave the basement. But, at the same time, I've become unbelievably lonely. I am not really sure why I went to a dating site... I knew I didn't want to date anybody.
So, this girl, that I met on the dating site, and I, have been emailing nearly everyday (we did some messenger stuff for about 20 minutes or so once as well) for about a week. Just short ones, mostly about coffee houses lol. I have already explained to her that I do not at all want a relationship, and I am pretty sure she knows this and is fine with it. However, I am super nervous about meeting her... she wants to meet with me and just play some card games or something at a coffee shop. I am scared to meet her. I know its just for friends, so why is my heart feeling sickened by the idea? why am I so nervous to meet her? She sounds like a really nice person, so its not at all her personality or anything like that, it is all in my head, and my body... I want to have a new friend, but I am just so scared and nervous. I am afraid that I will be heartbroken. I may sound like a pussy, but I'm almost tearing up right now thinking about having my heartbroken again...but its just as friends !!! so why do I feel this way?
I have no friends currently. I met a woman online, through a dating website, although, I in no way want to date anybody. There are still cinders burning at my heart from my last breakup. The thought of another relationship makes me sick, and makes me want to hide from the world, and not leave the basement. But, at the same time, I've become unbelievably lonely. I am not really sure why I went to a dating site... I knew I didn't want to date anybody.
So, this girl, that I met on the dating site, and I, have been emailing nearly everyday (we did some messenger stuff for about 20 minutes or so once as well) for about a week. Just short ones, mostly about coffee houses lol. I have already explained to her that I do not at all want a relationship, and I am pretty sure she knows this and is fine with it. However, I am super nervous about meeting her... she wants to meet with me and just play some card games or something at a coffee shop. I am scared to meet her. I know its just for friends, so why is my heart feeling sickened by the idea? why am I so nervous to meet her? She sounds like a really nice person, so its not at all her personality or anything like that, it is all in my head, and my body... I want to have a new friend, but I am just so scared and nervous. I am afraid that I will be heartbroken. I may sound like a pussy, but I'm almost tearing up right now thinking about having my heartbroken again...but its just as friends !!! so why do I feel this way?