lovebookstoomuch88
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Okay, so I am having trouble understanding my situation with guys in general. I am a female, 22 years old, an English major in college, and I haven't had a date at all in college. I am getting ready to graduate. As in like, a guy has never asked me out! I mean, I don't think I am entirely unattractive. I look at other girls and I'm like What am I missing that they have? I understand that guys like confident women, and lately I have been confident. I think I am confident in myself, but I don't take the time to explain that to people ya know? I've been told to do myself up with makeup and curls, smile all the time, dress nicely, etc. I have done all of this to no effect. Plus, every guy that I have ever liked has liked me back only as a substitute for someone else. I am not kidding, this has happened to me pretty much every single time except this last time. There was this really great guy that I worked with and I asked him out, but he just wants to be friends. I will admit that I am a little shy around guys, and that might come off as that I am uninterested. But like I said, I have been trying to give off this image that I am not a cold, stuck-up ***** you know? I keep asking myself if I am just dull and boring, but I have talked to plenty of people who like my sense of humor. So what is is that I am doing wrong? It's not exactly like I am on a man hunt or anything, but I would still like some suggestions as to what I could do in this situation. I don't even know where to start.