I am 20 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. I do understand that there is more than life than girls, but having never experience teenage love, hitting my 20s and still single just makes me feel like I have missed a whole chunk of my life. I have felt the same way for over 4 years, and have blew every little opportunity that came my way. I have absolutely no social skills. I am an extremely late bloomer and severely socially delayed. I would love to just "get up and do something about it", but I can't even keep a simple conversation with a girl cause I am extremely shy, so inexperienced and I just fail to great extents and refuse to embarrass myself further.
I can't talk about this with anyone especially my friends because all they tell me is to man up, grow some balls, go get laid, etc. I ask them to help me out, hook me up with the very many girls they know and they're just like "you don't need any help, help yourself". Nobody ever understands the pain I feel. Everytime I see two people making out in public I must turn away immediately. Or like if someone posts on Facebook how much they love thier girlfriend. I just cannot bear the sight of the joy coming out of people having what I just can't get, and imagining in my mind what its like to love someone dearly and for her to love you back the same.
It is super, super rare for a girl to actually be interested in me. Girls that actually liked me in a lifetime is a number that could almost be counted on your fingers. And those were the ones who came to me. Most just weren't my type, or dated me for like 2 days and eventually ignored me and treated me like I ceased to exist. The ones I actually go to quickly lose interest and walk away.
I just don't get why I am so ignored. Instead, all the self centered pricks out there gets the most attention. But for someone to actually sit down and get to know a kind, generous, attractive, sweet, innocent and loving person? Nope. Not good enough I guess. I am seriously giving up hope in myself and I am really starting to believe that my existence is not meant to be with a woman. Looks like I am headed for one lonely, miserable life.
I can't talk about this with anyone especially my friends because all they tell me is to man up, grow some balls, go get laid, etc. I ask them to help me out, hook me up with the very many girls they know and they're just like "you don't need any help, help yourself". Nobody ever understands the pain I feel. Everytime I see two people making out in public I must turn away immediately. Or like if someone posts on Facebook how much they love thier girlfriend. I just cannot bear the sight of the joy coming out of people having what I just can't get, and imagining in my mind what its like to love someone dearly and for her to love you back the same.
It is super, super rare for a girl to actually be interested in me. Girls that actually liked me in a lifetime is a number that could almost be counted on your fingers. And those were the ones who came to me. Most just weren't my type, or dated me for like 2 days and eventually ignored me and treated me like I ceased to exist. The ones I actually go to quickly lose interest and walk away.
I just don't get why I am so ignored. Instead, all the self centered pricks out there gets the most attention. But for someone to actually sit down and get to know a kind, generous, attractive, sweet, innocent and loving person? Nope. Not good enough I guess. I am seriously giving up hope in myself and I am really starting to believe that my existence is not meant to be with a woman. Looks like I am headed for one lonely, miserable life.