Fennec Foxes
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OK, I keep hearing people jumping to conclusions when strangers smile at them. They worry that they're smiling at them because they think they're ugly.
Let me make it clear that this is merely your own horror fantasy. Now, I can only speak for most adults, but I've never heard of any normal, functioning adult actually smiling or laughing at someone because they were ugly. EVER.
Now, if someone's dressed really strangely, yes. Because that's something the person can help, and the attitude's sort of like, "WTF possessed that guy to wear a scuba diving mask in public?". But nobody I've known over 20 has EVER looked at an unattractive person and smirked or laughed out of cruelty.
People see ugliness as the same level as a disability. It's not something people could help, and it's certainly NOT socially acceptable for adults to laugh at others for unfortunate looks (not to their faces).
So remove that fear out your minds. If anything, you're probably being flirted with.
Blah. Had to get that out there, because people worry about that WAY too much.
Let me make it clear that this is merely your own horror fantasy. Now, I can only speak for most adults, but I've never heard of any normal, functioning adult actually smiling or laughing at someone because they were ugly. EVER.
Now, if someone's dressed really strangely, yes. Because that's something the person can help, and the attitude's sort of like, "WTF possessed that guy to wear a scuba diving mask in public?". But nobody I've known over 20 has EVER looked at an unattractive person and smirked or laughed out of cruelty.
People see ugliness as the same level as a disability. It's not something people could help, and it's certainly NOT socially acceptable for adults to laugh at others for unfortunate looks (not to their faces).
So remove that fear out your minds. If anything, you're probably being flirted with.
Blah. Had to get that out there, because people worry about that WAY too much.